harley.quinn
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My Husband and I had planned to start TTC officially in 2016.
I am 34 years old - he is 39
we have been together 6 years and have never done anything to prevent pregnancy- it just hasn't seemed to happen
I do not have a regular cycle- previously there has been times where AF did not show up for months at a time- however recently it has been at least showing up monthly- i haven't been tracking yet so i don't really know what my cycles have been averaging.
November 27, 2015 i left on vacation without my husband to visit my family
November 28, 2015 AF showed up and lasted until about December 4th, 2015
December 5th, 2015- i arrived back home...since arriving home my husband and I have been having sex at least every other day- but there have been a lot of times it has been daily or multiple times a day
I noticed about a week ago my boobs started to feel sore
December 24th, 2015 i noticed dark brown spotting- i assumed it was AF showing up... December 25th, 2015 still very light dark spotting- i was using panty liners and there were maybe a couple of drops all day - it was mostly noticeable on the toilet paper
the dark spotting stopped after the 25th. my boobs continue to be sore.
I tested last night - and thought i saw a faint line. I tested again this morning, and it was a very definite negative
I know its hard bc we don't know when or IF i O'd - but IF that was implantation bleeding, would i get a positive test by next weekend(i was thinking maybe retesting next Sunday) i have one last FRER test and I don't want to "waste" it - if i should wait longer to know for sure that the test is valid...positive or negative. at this point i'm thinking the negative is accurate but i want to be sure.
also, if it is negative- since I am mid 30's and have been active with my husband for 6 years without protection- if I go to a dr in January is that going to be enough to get some tests going? or will they want me to temp etc before they do blood work?
thanks for reading!
I am 34 years old - he is 39
we have been together 6 years and have never done anything to prevent pregnancy- it just hasn't seemed to happen
I do not have a regular cycle- previously there has been times where AF did not show up for months at a time- however recently it has been at least showing up monthly- i haven't been tracking yet so i don't really know what my cycles have been averaging.
November 27, 2015 i left on vacation without my husband to visit my family
November 28, 2015 AF showed up and lasted until about December 4th, 2015
December 5th, 2015- i arrived back home...since arriving home my husband and I have been having sex at least every other day- but there have been a lot of times it has been daily or multiple times a day
I noticed about a week ago my boobs started to feel sore
December 24th, 2015 i noticed dark brown spotting- i assumed it was AF showing up... December 25th, 2015 still very light dark spotting- i was using panty liners and there were maybe a couple of drops all day - it was mostly noticeable on the toilet paper
the dark spotting stopped after the 25th. my boobs continue to be sore.
I tested last night - and thought i saw a faint line. I tested again this morning, and it was a very definite negative
I know its hard bc we don't know when or IF i O'd - but IF that was implantation bleeding, would i get a positive test by next weekend(i was thinking maybe retesting next Sunday) i have one last FRER test and I don't want to "waste" it - if i should wait longer to know for sure that the test is valid...positive or negative. at this point i'm thinking the negative is accurate but i want to be sure.
also, if it is negative- since I am mid 30's and have been active with my husband for 6 years without protection- if I go to a dr in January is that going to be enough to get some tests going? or will they want me to temp etc before they do blood work?
thanks for reading!
