Hello Newbie here but I am ohhh so confused

[maybebaby-no1]

Hello All

I am new to BnB but definatly not new to TTC. I suppose you need a little background info;

I am 26, I have been with my husband coming up for 9 years although only married 3 We have not been using any contraception since after about a year of being together, and have "activley" been TTC for around 4 years. In August I was doagnosed with PCOS and have previoulsy back in 2005 had Polyps removed.

The PCOS is a bit different from most as it seems from internet searching most people suffer from lack of a menstrual cycle I however the opposite I can go months on end bleeding continuisly. I have previously been prescribed Metformin, and I know I should really get back on them but they make me feel terrible. i shoudl also note that I am overweight in fact I am in the obese rabge but doctor is reluctant to prescribe anything else to help except the Metformin, I am watching what I eat but its soo hard. They will also not help me with fertility issues until I get my BMI down to at least 35! Currently sitting on 40.

Anyway on 30th November 09, I stopped bleeding (I cant remember when I started AF but she hung around for about a month I suppose, things have been really funny since then, see below;

Nov 30th - Stopped bleeding
Dec 1st - Nothing
Dec 2nd - Nothing
Dec 3rd - BD'd
Dec 4th - Nothing
Dec 5th - Nothing
Dec 6th - BD'd
Dec 7th - Nothing
Dec 8th - BD'd
Dec 9th - BD'd
Dec 10th - Slight spotting (Pink mixed with White CM) - No need for sanitary wear only once when I went to the toilet and wiped I noticed something, nothing the next time I went, this was early eve
Dec 11th - A the 10th Dec
Dec 12th - BD'd
Dec 13th - BD'd
Dec 14th - Nothing
Dec 15th - BD'd
Dec 16th - Nothing
Dec 17th - Small proper bleed (Deeper red still quite stretch I suppose) - I though this was the start of the witch again, as I was off to bed I popped in a tampax and off I went after crying mysef to sleep, got up this morning went to the toilet, removed tampax to find it nearly all white still, a small bit of pink and some brown but otherwise nothing, and although not long ago have nothing since, completly clear!

I have never really been able to chart because I just dont knwo when to start as I have no idea where in my cycle I am. Can anyone make any sense of the above????? It is driving me crazy.

Wow that was a long post for my first, sorry if I bored you all And maybe TMI in there but I would love some advise.

Looking forward to getting to know you all.

MBNo1

 

[caline]

Hi MBNo1 and welcome to the forum. The bleed you have had could possibly have been implantation bleeding, but given that you don't have any kind of cycles that you can chart its pretty much impossible to say. Do you think you might be pregnant? Could you do a test anyway?
Sorry I am not much help but yours is quite a complex situation, but I wish you sucess with ttc and let us know how it goes for you.

 

[maybebaby-no1]

Hi Caline

Well "symptoms" I have been experiencing for about the last week are as follows:

* Cramping normally on 1 side, not quite as bad as AF arriving cramps more like niggly cramping
* Lower back ache, OMG this has been a pain, for about the last 4/5 days does not stop me from sleeping or anything but is def there when I go to bed and there when i wake up, not unbearable though
* Itchy boobs but not constant. No other changes
* On Dec 13th felt sick but was not sick and this was mainly in the car although I dont suffer from travel sickness normally, we were on our way back from Wales seeing the in laws and have done the journey nemerous times.

I think thats about it really. With the exception of like an anxious feeling in my belly, but I am not anxious it just the best way to describe the feeling.

Thanks for the repaly love.

MBNo1

 

[baybeehopes]

hi, just read ur posts...i cant really offer much advice, but the 1sided pains sound like ov pains, i get them a few days every month...i think mayb u should check ur cm (not very pleasent) but when it is thick+ clear like an egg white, u r fertile, i always double check...although a few days b4 af it comes bk, also ur cervix will b high+open when fertile. Start checking+note down what is up there + hw ur cervix is+ u will kinda knw where in ur cycle u r fertile...good luck x