Ok so a rant and kind of if you know anything dont be afraid to say ... Im looking to get my childs bio fathers rights relinquished (praying possible) He hasnt been in her life for over 2 years (shes 3) he doesnt pay child support , he was violent towards me on a continuous basis( i was just young a too naieve at the time) the police came around so many times for domestic violence and the last time the police officer even witnessed it and he was charged (one was even attempted murder) so they are on record , he has a drug issue , he has warrants out for his arrest due to not complying with his bail conditions . DHS ( to ppl who dont know i think they're called the child welfare in your countires) have even prompted him to have access (supervised) and he hasnt (thankgod) and i have a new partner we are ttc and getting married in 2011 and he wants to adopt my baby girl. She sees him as her daddy hes always there takes her to the park plays with her you know all the things daddys do and she doesnt even know who her bio dad is when shes seen a pic of him oh did i mention when he beat me bonnie was in the room and shes scream and cry so not to say it had an affect on her! shes now happy and content i just want him to be banished from ever interfering in our lives. But some things i read on the internet doesnt look like much hope cos of all these father rights lately but thats the thing hes not!!! He may aswell just be a sperm doner... ARRR i hate him and i know he wont sign any papers just be spiteful... i wanted to take her to the u.k with me 2 years ago and he didnt let her as the passport office has to contact him first. Its such bullsh*t!! sorry had to let it out... i just feel so down and frustrated.