Hi im Pam

[notalone]

Hi everyone, urm well yeah im 18 and am pregnant.

I lost my virginity about 2 months ago then went on a holiday in france where i then met 2 guys who i had sex with. I came home and about a week ago i took a pregnancy test which was positive and went to the doctors who confirmed it.

All times i have had sex the guys have worn a condom. I have literally no contact with the guys from france and i don't really want to keep the baby, i am however totally against abortions.

I have also recently (after france) gained a new boyfriend, should i tell him? how will he react?

I haven't told anyone my mother just thinks im ill in the mornings.

Any help would be appreciated. xxx

 

[MummyJade]

Hi welcome 2 bnb

Not totally sure on what to say really, sorry you have found yourself in this situation when your not ready to be. But i didnt want to read and run, I understand your totally against abortion, maybe you could think about adoption? Telling your mum may help you decide on what you would like 2 do.

As for your new boyfriend only you know how he will react, shocked of course but he could turn around and support your decision no matter what you choose 2 do.

good luck and dont rush your choice as you may regret it later on in family

xx

 

[leeanne]

Guys? So would you even know who the father was?

 

[notalone]

Guys? So would you even know who the father was?

I had a threesome with 2 guys, i know its slutty but i wanted to experiment. I think my mum would just flip out if i told her and my dad would kill me.

I am really considering having the baby but not keeping it.

 

[leeanne]

Hmm, hope you had a fab time!

 

[MummyJade]

Sorry sweet but there is no way you could considering having the baby without telling your mum and dad 9 months is a long time and you will have a bump!! they could surprise you and be supportive..

do you know how far gone you are?
xx

 

[notalone]

Hmm, hope you had a fab time!

are you being sarcastic?

 

[leedsforever]

I had a threesome with 2 guys, i know its slutty but i wanted to experiment. I think my mum would just flip out if i told her and my dad would kill me.

I am really considering having the baby but not keeping it.

and you used no protection?!?

 

[leeanne]

If you are going to experiment in sex in such a way and now find yourself pregnant without knowing which one is the father, I would hope the whole experiment would at least be one that you enjoyed.

Needless to say, you shocked me as I wasn't expecting an answer such as that.

What will you do then if you don't want the baby? Adoption?

 

[nikky0907]

Well,you say you used protection...so I guess,everyone can get caught.

And you have no idea who the father is?

Tough one...Well,hun if you are thinking of putting the baby up for adoption thats very admirable.
However,you need to tell your mom about it,she'll support you in your decision.
Good luck.

 

[Suz]

Not a lot to add to what has already been said....

 

[Always&4ever]

Uhm... I have no idea what to say, so il say good luck

 

[xarlenex]

She said she used protection. It is possible that its snapped and shes not noticed.

Once you have had your scan and get your dates you should be able to get a good idea of who it might be. Personally I would tell your boyfriend..tell him as you were with someone on holiday you arent sure whos the baby is. Honesty is always the best policy x

 

[Suz]

But how can you tell who's it is if she did them both at the same time?

 

[leedsforever]

She said she used protection. It is possible that its snapped and shes not noticed.

Once you have had your scan and get your dates you should be able to get a good idea of who it might be. Personally I would tell your boyfriend..tell him as you were with someone on holiday you arent sure whos the baby is. Honesty is always the best policy x

sorry yeh I missed that about the condom... but in my experience Ive known if one has snapped etc!! But I understand mistakes happen especially if alcohol was invovled!!

 

[leedsforever]

But how can you tell who's it is if she did them both at the same time?

what I was thinking to!!!

 

[leeanne]

Dunno! Never been in that situation.

 

[nikky0907]

Well,there's no way of knowing without a DNA test and since she's not in contact with neither of them...

Oh,yeah I just wanted to add that this is kinda an STD hazard.Maybe it wouldn't hurt to get yourself tested? You never know...

 

[Suz]

Ok now im confused.... Your 1st time was not with the frenchie 3some? Do you talk to the 1st guy?

 

[xarlenex]

I guess if you were to keep the baby, and the dates worked out to be at the time of the french guy threesome then all that can be done is to track them down, do DNA tests, or bring the baby up without him. Or possibly with your current boyfriend?

Dont jump straight to abortion though, as there as plenty women out there who want nothing more in life than a child x