ok these questions go to the people who do/will smack:
If you see a mum/dad in say a supermarket lift her hand and smack a child on its bum so hard that the child is lifted of the ground, Is this still a reasonable smack?
If your child smacks back would you smack harder to reinforce why you smacked?
How can the weight of a mum/dad compare to that of say a toddler and how do you know what would indeed cause injury?
Ok my thoughts are very anti-smacking; I dont see normal smacking as abuse but I do see it as the parents having lost control not taking control.
Parenting is hard and toddlers children do test the boundaries all the time but I really dont see how smacking works. My nephews are smacked and it isnt working, they still are angry, naughty, hitting their mum/dad/friends at school.
So what happens when your children go to school and start using this way to discipline their friends.
Discipline doesnt have to involve smacking. There is always another way.
I have brought 5 children into this world and I havent smacked any of them, and they arent corrupt. They are the best natured, best mannered and most loving kids I know