Chellebelle
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Growing up - my mum slapped the back of my legs if I was naughty - which I remember sometimes I felt it was un-called for, and my dad didn't believe in smacking children (he was a residential Social Worker working with disaffected kids). When I turned into a teenager - I had complete respect for my dad... and as he didn't raise his voice to me unless he was seriously angry, I was frightened to death when he did shout at me... my mum however lost all my respect as I got older and she could not control any of us - she knew she couldn't smack me anymore as I was a teen.
My parents split up after the second child and me and my brother ended up living with my dad due to bruises being found on us both when living with my mum and step dad. We grew up respecting our elders. My mum and step dad had 3 children - all of whom they smacked - my step dad was even arrested on one occasion for it as he took it too far and his son was brused all over. All 3 of them had issues - the 2 boys had ADHD and my step sister wet the bed until about 10 years old.
I know it is each to their own... but I personally feel that in today's society - I would not smack my children - I will try my best to instill discipline how my dad did... it worked for me, my brother and my step sister. xxx
My parents split up after the second child and me and my brother ended up living with my dad due to bruises being found on us both when living with my mum and step dad. We grew up respecting our elders. My mum and step dad had 3 children - all of whom they smacked - my step dad was even arrested on one occasion for it as he took it too far and his son was brused all over. All 3 of them had issues - the 2 boys had ADHD and my step sister wet the bed until about 10 years old.
I know it is each to their own... but I personally feel that in today's society - I would not smack my children - I will try my best to instill discipline how my dad did... it worked for me, my brother and my step sister. xxx