chuck
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Well the MW came on saturday for my booking and she asked if I had a normal labour last time I said I ended with EMCS so she said ok do you want to be booked for Ashford or Margate hospital? There was a hissing intake of breath when I said neither - home. please.
But I spoke to her a bit and she said well no one can force you to birth in a hospital and unless there are any problems late in pregnancy then the MW's will support you - you'll see an OB and a consultant MW around 21 weeks and will have to state your case and they'll tell you you that you shouldn't but if it's what you want then we'll support you as you aren't the first and wont be the last!
So more hopeful that the MW's will be supportive now.
I said that I understand that there may be 100 reasons to stop the HB between now and term but if I can I really want my VBAC at home as I think I stand the best chance of getting a VBAC at home rather than hospital seeing as I had such a bad time last time. But I did have to book a preference for a hospital 'just in case' but have had to book in the one that has the worse reputation as I do not want to have any contact with the bitch of an OB I had to deal with last time!
But I spoke to her a bit and she said well no one can force you to birth in a hospital and unless there are any problems late in pregnancy then the MW's will support you - you'll see an OB and a consultant MW around 21 weeks and will have to state your case and they'll tell you you that you shouldn't but if it's what you want then we'll support you as you aren't the first and wont be the last!
So more hopeful that the MW's will be supportive now.
I said that I understand that there may be 100 reasons to stop the HB between now and term but if I can I really want my VBAC at home as I think I stand the best chance of getting a VBAC at home rather than hospital seeing as I had such a bad time last time. But I did have to book a preference for a hospital 'just in case' but have had to book in the one that has the worse reputation as I do not want to have any contact with the bitch of an OB I had to deal with last time!