The antenatal classes I went to in my last pg were a joke.
We all turned up to the first class at 7pm at the hospital (there were 6 couples or thereabouts) only to sit there for half an hour and a MW come out of the BC and tell us sorry the class isnt on no one had thought to cover the lady on leave! Me and hubby had walked nearly 2 miles to get there, others had got cabs others had to pay to park and no sorry, no have a cuppa or drink just come back net week.
We went back next week to be greeted by someone who I'm sure is a great MW but REALLY needs training in how to present info to people.
She hadnt prepared and it was obvious, she had a hodge podge of OLD bits and pieces dragged from a cupboard and she complained she had no where to hang a poster from (unprepared!). She didnt bother introducing herself properly or giving us an outline of what is was we were there for nothing.
She yammered on for ages while making a plasticine cervix and regaling us with useless anecdotes from her births.
It was pointless, needless to say we didn't go back for any more session. It's not just because I'm a teacher, my husband isn't and he couldn't stand it she was just so rubbish at giving info to people.
It really grinds my gears that so many women dont get the chance to access any antenatal care and that so much of it is shite. I'm glad I've got enough smarts to ask questions adn read book and come here to get information, the poor girls and women who rely on antenatal classes are missing out on so much.
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In other news the OB wasnt too bad I guess, I had to LOL though he was reading my notes when I got in and it states intended place of birth - HOME quite clearly on the front and yet the 1st Q he asked was 'are you going to Ashford hospital?' errr no i reply I'm having a homebirth!
His reply to that was 'you do know it's dangerous, there is risk of UR'
I had to tell him yes I am aware there is a risk but I know that a HB is my best chance of getting a VBAC I want.
He went on to tell me he had a case of UR last week and was only able to get baby out in time because the lady was in hospital.
<facepalm>
I told him I have spoken to my MW I understand the risks and I have confidence that albeit very low risk and signs of UR would be picked up better by the 100% attention of my MW at home which I wouldn't get in hospital....he just looked at me smiles and said well we really don't need to think about this until I see you at 34 weeks. We'll talk more then.
He did say at some point it was good that my MW was supportive...I get the feeling he isn't LOL I wonder why