chuck
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I know I've got to try, I haven't looked for a HB group to be honest after how much he complained about the antenatal sessions we tried last time lol (but they were awful).
He's ok with the idea of HB although I do think he would be more comfortable if I were going to hospital - to him the Dr's know best and bow to their wisdom. So at least I dont have to fight him on that its the emotional side of things he hasn't got a clue about he really doesn't seem to see that it's important for me to go through this as best I can and not just get through it.
In light of the CS comment I think he's worried that we'll go through the same again, a long labour and EMCS and me in tears for months.
To be honest I'm scared of that, it'll break me if that happens, I remained functional through everything last time and got through the PND without needing meds as I've been there before Depression wise and know how to get through it. But to do it again I dont know if could cope with a newborn, 1 year old by myself if hubby proves as helpful as he was last time.
We barely spoke after that last night and this morning. We're going to Brighton this weekend and his mam is watching Dewi - we're off to a tattoo convention so we'll have no chance to speak over the weekend - he'll be too busy drinking and getting tattooed (HUFF I had plans then got pg LOL).
He's ok with the idea of HB although I do think he would be more comfortable if I were going to hospital - to him the Dr's know best and bow to their wisdom. So at least I dont have to fight him on that its the emotional side of things he hasn't got a clue about he really doesn't seem to see that it's important for me to go through this as best I can and not just get through it.
In light of the CS comment I think he's worried that we'll go through the same again, a long labour and EMCS and me in tears for months.
To be honest I'm scared of that, it'll break me if that happens, I remained functional through everything last time and got through the PND without needing meds as I've been there before Depression wise and know how to get through it. But to do it again I dont know if could cope with a newborn, 1 year old by myself if hubby proves as helpful as he was last time.
We barely spoke after that last night and this morning. We're going to Brighton this weekend and his mam is watching Dewi - we're off to a tattoo convention so we'll have no chance to speak over the weekend - he'll be too busy drinking and getting tattooed (HUFF I had plans then got pg LOL).