good luck with the doulas moomin!
off topic from hb but hospitals generally, agh!
v v stressful wkend! we went back to hospital sunday and they were happy the jaundice levels had receeded but were all like 'he's v v dry, he needs feeding' felt like i was being accused of not feeding him, yet my milk hadn't come in yet! got bullied into giving him formula and admitted! despite all his levels coming back in bloods were just within normal limits. anyway to cut a long story short my mum came in and had a word with them. I was v v upset cos was day 3-4 anyway and milk was just coming in plus it felt like i was being told i'd starved my child! but they wanted me to feed him every 3 hrs, then express and top up using a bottle :S, and then if still hungry give him formula!
so my mum got them to agree we would follow this at home and they let me go, blooming Dr's! and today he's gained 190g overnight, which is apparently tones! we were having to properly strip him off and wake him last night he was so overfed! but was worth it to prove them wrong! ha.
Midwife came out today and was like, oh goodness what have they done to you! so i'm allowed to go back to breast feeding normally, no expressing. And just not let him sleep for more than 4 hours, which he NEVER has done anyway! except maybe last night he would have done as they made us force feed him!
Whats v scary is if i didn't have the support of my mum and was a nervous mother they'd have ruined my chances of breastfeeding, as once they'd given him a bottle his latch was really difficult to regain the 1st few times! plus being made to feel like i'd failed feeding him in those 1st few days was horrible on the days milk was just coming in too when i had the baby blues anyhow!
main thing is milk is now back in, so fx'ed things will now get easier! midwife is going to re-weight him wed
xx
whos still waiting for LO's next? PB van't be long now!! xxx