Hi Just catching up, that's great news, Sam, hope it all gets more relaxing for you soon.
I can't believe the UK govt would try to abolish IMW's, that's beyond ridiculous, and very sad, hopefully the crappy coalition dissolves before then and you get a new government - otherwise I can see an increase in UC, as choices are taken away from those women who have bad previous experiences in hospital. I think if the Tories had their way they'd have it run like the States - all private and insurance-funded.
Cranberry, I'm not even telling my family as I don't want to listen to the hysterical ill-informed dribble I'll have to endure! That will be easy for me as my family are all in Scotland and my MIL is 3.5 hours away. Maybe it's not such a good idea to post your plans on the wide net of FB, I know it would be nice to try to promote the idea and get some positive affirmations from your friends, but unfortunately there will always be somone who thinks they know better and is determined to let you know that! I'm only discussing it with people I know are supportive as I know I need to stay positive. Of course it's up to you though, I just can't be bothered to expend the energy fending off negative comments, but make sure you post your lovely natural positive birth story on there afterwards, that should shut them all up!! I can't think of any witty repostes except: the fact that every one of us is here, is testament to the hundreds and thousands of generations of women who did it before us, and modern pain releif has only been available to the last few generations. Not possible, eh?
I had a pretty-much full-on fight with a lady on a NZ forum yesterday. Well, a heated debate, after I was discussing options of a couple of local midwives with someone on the forum and revealed my desire for a HBAC and the fact that I've just switched midwives as the policy of the first one's organisation is not to support VBAC outside hospital, where the second is part of the homebirth collective and was quite willing to do it. Anyway, said lady chimed in with all the usual hysterical nonsense about risk and blah blah "and you are 4 hours away from a main hospital"! Yes, I know where I live, thank you! "And all the helicopters might be busy with ski-field injuries" (what, in the middle of summer??) Anyway it turns out she's "in the industry" (her words and quite revealing, I thought) so I asked her if that was in a medical setting, and if so did she not think that dealing with mainly high-risk and problem cases in hospital had skewed her ideas on natural birth a bit? Naturally have had no response, I think I'll just steer well clear of that site in future, I should have known as they have no "natural birth" section. Anyway, I'm rambling a bit, but just wanted to share an example of revealing your plans to a less than supportive or understanding audience, I won't do it again.
Hope you are all well xxx