Home Birthers & Hopefuls!

I'm gonna mirror what merves mums experience was. My waters broke with imm at 9am and I didn't get contractions start till evening when I finally started contracting because I was relaxed So chill out and go with the flow then things will happen. Xx
 
Ive been getting tightening sensations that start at the bottom and radiate. They are coming every 10 minutes for the last hour, but they do NOT hurt at all. The MW said she think its my uterus warming up and its the start of something...i surely hope so! ...i know it will get more painful, but this is WAY easier than all that back labor i had with isaiah from being posterior! I havn't had ANY back labor yet! :dance:
 
Me too hopefully things are in full seeing or even lo is here. X
 
Elliot Nehemiah arrived today at 3:03pm (02.12.2012) @ 38+3 via home water birth. he weighs 7lb 4oz 20in long :cloud9:

The birth was another long haul!....def easier, in some ways, compared to isaiahs birth...but also harder in other aspects. My water broke at 7:35am yesterday (02/11/12). but contractions didn't even start until 3pm (and those didn' even hurt). I had to use the breast pump on and off as well as taking black cohash. When I used the pump, i would get strong contractions 2-3 minutes apart, but when i stopped everything died away to about 1 contraction every 10 minutes. About 10pm last night is when they started getting really hard (though easier to cope since ZERO back labor). They were about 6 minutes apart from 10-3am. So we called the MWs....and when they got there at 4:30am they basically stopped. I got them like every 15 minutes or something...though they were very painful and uncomfortable-even though it wasn't active labor. I used the pump a total of 4 hours over the entire last two days. Finally started getting really painful. About noon today i was 4cm. So i did some pumping and then got in the nice hot birth pool. Thats when things really picked up! I was 7-8cm at about 2pm. And the around 2:30 i began pushing...pushing REALLY hurt! It was actually painful and i did not find the relief that most women talk about....eventually i got his head out of the cervix (really felt like i was going to poo!!! ...and i did :haha:) then finally his head came out. (He came out anterior-facing the correct direction :dance:) The cord was wrapped around his neck 1x. But nothing scary, its googy and the MW slipped it back, so no issues-at all with that-no big deal. Next was the shoulders. usually they will just slid e out with the next contraction but the MW had to put her hands in there next to the baby (OUCH!!!!) to help move his shoulders because they had trouble fitting. It was NOT any type of emergency, but he just needed a little extra help (apparently i have a small birth canal :shrug: could be why isaiah came out posterior). Then out came my little Elliot (at 3:03pm)! :cloud9: he is so teeny tiny! I still can't believe he weighs over 6lbs lol.

Technically active labor was considered precipitus as it was less than 4 hours long...but really i had been up all night and day before contracting and they were quite painful, but just not regular enough. The MWs said they have NEVER witnessed a birth like that ....with the contractions not really going. And then with the pump usually thats the one thing that women can do in labor to get things moving...for me it got them moving...until i stopped using the pump :dohh: ...also, they said his umbelical cord was short...not abnormally short, but just on the shorter end of normal....personally i wonder if his labor went that way because of the already short cord, plus it being around his neck :shrug: interesting to say the least!

He nurses like a pro! And we are just so in love! Isaiah did a great job too. And he really seems to love Elliot as well :cloud9:
 
Congratulations guppy I'm so happy for you all. Sounds like a nice speedy delivery once things got going. Love to you all. Xxx
 
Just had my first midwife appointment, and she asked if I'd be interested in a home birth!! I of course said I definitely want one, and she screamed for joy!! haha! She said they have for some reason seen a real drop in HBs in the area! And is very excited for mine! :happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance: :happydance::happydance:

So I have a team of midwives desperate to do home births!
(she also said from my experience with Ollie I sound like I'll be able to manage it very well, especially since he was so big at birth!)
 
Aw that's brilliant! It's nice when there so positive and upbeat about it, rather than having to fight for one lol. X
 
:dance: Awesome! You are going to love a homebirth! I wouldn't do it any other way. The difference between my homebirth and hospital birth...amazing, wouldn't trade it!
 
I can't imagine going back to the hospital again! Can't bear the thought of not giving birth in water, it just feels right to me!! (My hosp only has 1 pool, and it's first come first served!) When I was having Ollie in there, another person wanted it, she said in the ward after...I kept quiet about the fact it was me!

Also, don't want DH to leave us for the night like he did in hospital with Ollie!
 
I had a lovely hospital birth, don't get me wrong, and I wish I'd have been brave enough to go for a home birth first time round, but I was full of what-ifs, being my first child!
 
I know what you're saying but there is really nothing brave about giving birth at home be it our first or thirteenth child. :winkwink: Some would say it's brave giving birth in hospital given the risks. The place you should give birth should be the place you feel safest and that's not always where people expect. :)
 
I know what you're saying but there is really nothing brave about giving birth at home be it our first or thirteenth child. :winkwink: Some would say it's brave giving birth in hospital given the risks. The place you should give birth should be the place you feel safest and that's not always where people expect. :)

I really do wish I had looked into it more! But I was also living with my mum in a little 2 bed flat, so I don't think I would have been comfortable there (as would have had to have used the living room) But I really do wish I could go back in time and tell myself that it's okay to have your first at home lol!
 
I had loads of women say oh your so brave!! Ok then ha ha! I usually find out they've been fans of epidurals though ha ha. Or drs at work (I'm a nurse) would look at me like I'm mental and it's the worst decision I could ever make. Although I didn't get to give birth at home I was there for all but half hour of it and was soooooo much more better, enjoyable and relaxing then hospital. I'm just glad she came within 15 mins of getting there cause I know I'd of wollowed in self pitty between contractions lol. Your gonna love it. Xx
 

Users who are viewing this thread

Members online

No members online now.

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
1,650,307
Messages
27,144,899
Members
255,759
Latest member
boom2211
Back
Top
monitoring_string = "c48fb0faa520c8dfff8c4deab485d3d2"
<-- Admiral -->