What about the other kids who were in the class with 'the rotten lots' is their fate sealed because they are a bit slower in Maths?
Does no one else see a flaw with this system
Better for who? The kids in the top sets who didn't have to worry about the inconvenience of the 'rotton' kids, but what about the kids who just take things a bit slower? They are in the bottom sets with the 'rotten' kids...
I know you are saying your kid will Definitely be in a top set but life doesnt work like that, what if he just doesnt get on with Maths? Regardless, I think that children should be able to learn in an environment comfortable to them regardless of their ability. Separating it out so the 'naughty kids' don't interfere with those likely to get high gcse marks is far more about the schools league scores, than the well being of the children.
umm... the only person being aggressive here is you, the rest of us are just having a conversation about homeschooling
I sincerely hope things go as perfectly for you as you so wish, I am not going to force my child to do something they do not want to do, nor am i blind to the idea that sometimes, with the best intentions in the world, some kids just struggle a bit with certain subjects.
I am also not comfortable with a situation where kids are just forgotten about if they are in the bottom classes, i think that shows a real disregard for people in this world who are good at practical things.
We need mechanics, carpenters, builders etc just as much as we need scientists and architects, why force a child into a life they are not comfortable with when actually all children are naturally good at different things?
i would say those 'rotten kids' as you HAVE labelled them, are actually just better at things that school doesnt cater for, or would be better off with a more hands on style of education.
Which they deserve (in my eyes)
I dont know why you are so agressive about it to be honest, but please do not allow this agressive pride to impact on your child, they have to be children and be forgiven too, even if they are a bit different from the norm x
I stink at math. I cant do double digit addition, let alone much else. I cant subtract unless i use my fingers and dont ask me what 8x6 is. I have been this way since gradeschool. My parents at first tried tutors, "special ed" math classes, even pulling me back in math. I just wasnt getting it. No my parents didnt sit down with me at the table and work with me and no they didnt help with homework. Thats NOT why i stink at math though. I stink at math because i wasnt taught in a way that benefited me. I am VERY VERY VERY visual and hands on for math. Public Schools/Teachers dont have time to work with me to learn when the other 29 students get the same math problems in 1/2 the time and they can move on.
Thats not to argue with you marineWAG, thats an example of how encouragement from parents/teachers did not make a difference. I stink at math no matter what. I did have encouragement from the tutors and Special teachers but they didnt use the right methods so i still wasnt getting it.
Now i am using that same thing for DD1. She is very visual as well and at first i tried a workbook Math curriculum for her and she REALLY struggled. Now we use a visual/hands on math curriculum and we are both happy!
The point i was making Marine, was that my friend with GCSES is struggling massively with life and achievement, whilst my friend without is doing really well...
So its important that we understand that those who work with their hands or are talented at one thing (like Martin is with engines) are just as valuable and need those skills to be honed etc so they make the best of themselves (rather than the best of what someone else wants them to be)
Also, there are actual issues with brain function (like dyspraxia, dyslexia etc) that will prevent a child from being able to complete 'a GCSE' but they might be good in other ways.
So I think (personally) its best to find out about our kids and what THEY need rather than instantly trying to fit them into a box. If J is good with exams and study then of course he can do GCSES, but I am not blind to the idea that getting GCSES are not the only important thing in life (or childhood)
Better for who? The kids in the top sets who didn't have to worry about the inconvenience of the 'rotton' kids, but what about the kids who just take things a bit slower? They are in the bottom sets with the 'rotten' kids...
I know you are saying your kid will Definitely be in a top set but life doesnt work like that, what if he just doesnt get on with Maths? Regardless, I think that children should be able to learn in an environment comfortable to them regardless of their ability. Separating it out so the 'naughty kids' don't interfere with those likely to get high gcse marks is far more about the schools league scores, than the well being of the children.
The 'rotten' kids as you keep quoting me for, were the little shits who didn't give a damn about school, always played up and probably had little to no encouragement from home. I don't care where they ended up or what the kids who ended up with them did quite frankly, that is the teachers and parents problem. My parents raised me to understand the importance of education and respect my teachers, therefore I was a good student, top set working along others who were similar, we of course had the odd class clown but not to the detriment of my education, and certainly not worth pulling me out of school for. I don't care about league scores I care about my son's education just as you care about your child's, I believe the setting system works and will be happy for my son to go under the same system, if it fails I will sort it out one way or another. He will get on with maths because he will be encouraged, GCSEs are incredibly simple, there is no reason to leave school without them IF you have the right encouragement. I don't understand the argument here?? I wasn't even in an argument...I was happy with my schooling, I am happy for DS to have the same, home schooling is NOT for us but it is for others, I don't see the issue with state schooling with the right encouragement from home, but if something goes wrong I won't let him stay doing what he is doing, he WILL leave school with qualifications he needs END OF.
I'd love to home educate for many reasons, I'd also like her to go to school for many reasons. As someone who was severely bullied at both primary and secondary school I definately worry a lot whether my innocent baby will be a target. I also believe that children at school need stimulation in the classroom and have a variety, which I felt ( I left school 3 years ago ) there wasn't enough of. But I think a child needs to socialise with others and gain 'independance skills' from being away from home. I believe the schooling system ruined me. I was never listened to, I was 11 and in maths was in the top group (we got placed due to our sats grades in primary school) I didn't know anything like what these teachers were teaching. I told the teacher over a number of weeks how I was struggling and needed a little push, I even wrote notes in my books begging her to understand. Instead of speaking to me about it she automatically moved me to the lowest group in maths (there was 5 groups altogether). This killed my confidence, I thought that the teachers didn't think I could work, from then on I lost confidence in most subjects, found myself going down to lower groups in lots of subjects and eventually started acting out, getting in trouble, skipping school. I truly believe if someone had just listened to me and explained the work to me in a way I could understand I would have gotten the A* I was predicted rather than the D. It wasn't until I was nearly 16 that I found my confidence again, there was 5 teachers (4 taught me, 1 was more of a 'shoulder to cry on') and they brought me back up, but by then it was too late for me to re-learn everything.
I don't think this is a common thing to happen in public schools, I was a one off and the bullying didn't help either. I'm very 50/50 about what to do with my children xx
The 'little shits' I am referring to were the vile boys who were in my form group that I knew from primary school, know their background and know what they are up to now (which says a lot about them)....I am not talking about anybody else, a select few who I was glad to be seperated from- the ones half of this thread seem happy to seperate their children from doing home schooling. If you are having a dig at me Indy and Lara because I mentioned I wanted to be a teacher you can keep your opinions to yourself, I volunteer in a Youth Club weekly and deal with troubled teenagers who I care deeply for and do all I can in the little time I see them in the week, voluntarily (after working full time in a completely different sector I will add)- so if you want to keep people like me from environments like this who keep youth services alive in small communities with small budgets you would see a stark difference in the behaviour of some children in school I can assure you.
I am leaving this thread now, unsubscribing and won't look again. I don't quite know why I am being attacked, I feel like because I didn't say 'Oh yeah wow home schooling what an amazing idea I wish I could do it- omg maybe I will' nothing I say matters. Especially when Feeble you eventually understood what I was saying even if you didn't agree? But whatever, you do what you will with your children, I'll do what I need to for mine- just because I am not home schooling does not mean I love them less. It is not appropriate for us, it would be a last resort.