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Hi all,
Just wanted to get opinions / rant really.
sooo little bit of back story - january 17th i had my 2nd nexplanon removed, Felt fine.
First AF (since before i had my youngest - 5yr old) had my AF arrive 17th feb 2020, lasted its usual week (from my teens i was always on for a week) that was fine it ended on the 23rd feb ..
Hubby and I DtD on the 29th feb, unprotected, usually on the pull out method, had an oops moment.
Thennn i start spotting on the 6th march 2020, it was fairly light, then got slightly heavier and lasted until the 8th.
now ive no idea when or if i even ovulated etc because of that lighter shorter bleed.
If i go by the first 7 day period, that had me possibly ovulating around beginning of march,
which would now make me 2weeks late (as of tomorrow)
But if i go buy the second shorter bleed, i wouldve ovulated around the 17th March, we DTD a few times but managed our usual method.. then i am due AF this coming Friday
ANYWAY (thanks for reading this far)
These last 2weeks or so been feeling pretty nauseous, cramping lower right pelvis, extremly veiny breasts, i took a asdas own test mainly just to put me at ease and tell myself i was being silly but almost immediately i see a very faint line .. it showed to soon to be evaporation line.. soooo i did a clear blue yesterday with second urine of the day (had to pee before going to buy one lol) it said negative.. was gutted so thought i would save the digital test for this morning 29th Feb and i used FMU and it said not pregnant, which basically just broke me.
i didnt think i wanted to be pregnant right now but in all honesty im devastated more than i thought i would be ..
Have included the clearest pic i could get of the asda test.
Do You see it or am i just losing my mind?
thanks for reading, just stressed out and feeling like sh*t
Much love ladies xo

Just wanted to get opinions / rant really.
sooo little bit of back story - january 17th i had my 2nd nexplanon removed, Felt fine.
First AF (since before i had my youngest - 5yr old) had my AF arrive 17th feb 2020, lasted its usual week (from my teens i was always on for a week) that was fine it ended on the 23rd feb ..
Hubby and I DtD on the 29th feb, unprotected, usually on the pull out method, had an oops moment.
Thennn i start spotting on the 6th march 2020, it was fairly light, then got slightly heavier and lasted until the 8th.
now ive no idea when or if i even ovulated etc because of that lighter shorter bleed.
If i go by the first 7 day period, that had me possibly ovulating around beginning of march,
which would now make me 2weeks late (as of tomorrow)
But if i go buy the second shorter bleed, i wouldve ovulated around the 17th March, we DTD a few times but managed our usual method.. then i am due AF this coming Friday
ANYWAY (thanks for reading this far)
These last 2weeks or so been feeling pretty nauseous, cramping lower right pelvis, extremly veiny breasts, i took a asdas own test mainly just to put me at ease and tell myself i was being silly but almost immediately i see a very faint line .. it showed to soon to be evaporation line.. soooo i did a clear blue yesterday with second urine of the day (had to pee before going to buy one lol) it said negative.. was gutted so thought i would save the digital test for this morning 29th Feb and i used FMU and it said not pregnant, which basically just broke me.
i didnt think i wanted to be pregnant right now but in all honesty im devastated more than i thought i would be ..
Have included the clearest pic i could get of the asda test.
Do You see it or am i just losing my mind?
thanks for reading, just stressed out and feeling like sh*t
Much love ladies xo

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