knobby
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Im sure everything will work out for the best n the end whether we're friends anymore or not. if she does get pregnant & all of a sudden wants 2 hang out & talk 2 me I don't know if ill be willing. I will update & let everyone know if our friendship lasts or not.
As hard as it is to feel that your friend is not happy for you, know that she isn't feeling this way because of you at all. She is going through a really hard time in her life. I know for the 1.5 years I suffered from miscarriages and infertility I was in a personal crisis - I feared I would never have children, that I would never be a mom, and that I couldn't give my husband children. I wondered what the rest of my life would be like without our own family. I was in a very sad and depressed state. And when you feel like this, it is hard to face people that are pregnant - it has nothing to do with them, you just think, "Why can't I be pregnant too?" It makes you mourn for the babies you've lost and babies you think you can't have.
My body was betraying me despite BDing every day with my husband. We couldn't have tried more if we wanted to (I had an ovulation problem that made it hard to conceive and chronic endometritis that was causing my miscarriages).
Before you throw in the towel on your friendship, I would go to your friend and try to talk with her. Don't wait for her to come to you - she is hurting. Be sensitive, understanding, and let her know that you are there for her. She'll come around and be happy for you.