Uhhhmmm.... Haha. Please don't anyone think badly of me butttt...
My 2nd yr of college I switched schools and moved to a new town, a friend of mine was also going to that school so we rented a house together but it was a 3 bdrm so we needed someone else as well. A girl neither of us knew messaged me and asked if it was still available, which it was, so she ended up moving in with us. Her best friend was also going to school with all of us so she hung out at our place a lot... with her bf of 5+ yrs. My friend said she knew there was something between me & the guy the first time we saw each other in September, but he was kinda off limits since he was roomies best friends man. Haha. Confusing, right?
Anyway, I started to like him, a lot, the more time we spent hanging out as a group. I never said anything to anyone except my best friends back home. I didn't think anything could ever come of it since his woman was always talking about how happy they were. I ended up having, erm, relations, with 2 of his friends over the months
, then they went down to their hometown for Christmas. Over that time we would talk over msn, and he even called just to talk. When they came back we all hung out since we had all become really good friends and missed eachother. Over new Years there was a pretty bad storm and they got stuck at our house for a few nights, then we went on a roadtrip to his hometown for the night. It was fun.
When we got back home I was talking to him and his gf on msn, and he told me that she asked him if he liked me. I didn't know what to say since she had just asked me if I liked him. I asked him what he told her and he said that he told her the truth -- He liked me, a lot. I eventually admitted to him that I really liked him as well, and I told her too, but only because she kept asking. Later he came and picked me up so that we could talk face to face. She kept pushing him to pick, 4 days later he asked me if I'd be with him. We've been together ever since. It was 2 yrs on Jan 9th.
Even though it was hard since we were all friends and we got a lot of people angry (his mother wouldn't accept me and I wasn't allowed to his parents place for 3 months until he took me for a surprise visit), she treated him really badly, and was very controlling. I swear he almost put the car in the ditch one night when I told him that he didn't have to ask
permission to hang out with the boys and that he could go alone. Haha. She now is with someone that she loves and we're all happy. So I say Cheers to Soulmates, and the struggles that make it all worth it in the end.
Sorry for such a long post, but that's my story of how I got together with my DF