how do i deal with this

[sheenattc1]

i have been ttcing for 5 years and nothing and then of course my little sis is pregnant with her 2nd child, i took it hard at first but now i am ok well i was ok yesterday, now today i found out my brother is having a new baby, i am happy for them but i just cant take it anymore, i am so depressed i just dont want to leave the house, , he doesnt even know that i know yet, but when ever someone tells me they have something to tell me i know that there pregnant, my lil sis called me to tell me my brother was trying to reach me and had something to tell me and i guessed it right, I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE, i just want to run away frome everyone and everything.

 

[lintu]

oh huni i know it's so hard when everyone gets caught all around u and some days it's good to have a low. But you gotta pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep going xxx

What have you been trying?

 

[Smitty]

Oh, that is so hard. I can understand why you'd be so upset. Give yourself some time to feel sorry for yourself and then get back in the game. Maybe some of their pregnant "vibes" will rub off on your and bring you good luck. Hope you get your BFP soon!!!

 

[lintu]

thinking about it i read somewhere that, holding babies kinda kick starts your body, dont know if its an old wives tale tho.

Anotherone is sitting in a pregnant woman chair, my mate swears that one worked for her xxx

 

[Wildflower]

:: That can't be easy. I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

 

[rustyswife828]

Aww hun !

Once they tell you they're pregnant..ask them to not talk to you about it anymore because it upsets you that you are still having trouble conceiving..just tell them how you feel..I'm sure they'll understand

Since you've been TTC for a long time..have you seen a doctor about this?

 

[keyahopes]

I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time I hope you find a reason to smile soooon!!

 

[angelgirl86]

Aww I know how tough it can be. My lil sis has 3 kids and she isn't even 21 yet, it just isn't fair. She got preg by "accident" all 3 times. I wish it was that easy for all of us ladies, the ones who are actually ready to bring a baby into the world!

 

[spragueac]

Oh man, some days I feel this same way! Two of my sisters have gotten pg on "accident" and several of my friends recently as well. While you're happy for them, it can also get you feeling down about yourself. I am also curious if you've been able to see a Dr about this? I have been TTC for several months now with no succes and my OH and I are going to the Dr. on the 13th to see what he thinks.

 

[sheenattc1]

oh huni i know it's so hard when everyone gets caught all around u and some days it's good to have a low. But you gotta pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep going xxx

What have you been trying?

thank you, i have tryed, clomid, fertilaid, preseed, opks, soft cups, taking vites, legs in the air and just about everything that doesnt cost a thousand dollers.

 

[sheenattc1]

Oh, that is so hard. I can understand why you'd be so upset. Give yourself some time to feel sorry for yourself and then get back in the game. Maybe some of their pregnant "vibes" will rub off on your and bring you good luck. Hope you get your BFP soon!!!

at my sisters last baby shower with her first child there was at least 7 pregnant girls there under 18 yrs old and i rubbed bellys with them all, it didnt work, lol

 

[sheenattc1]

Oh man, some days I feel this same way! Two of my sisters have gotten pg on "accident" and several of my friends recently as well. While you're happy for them, it can also get you feeling down about yourself. I am also curious if you've been able to see a Dr about this? I have been TTC for several months now with no succes and my OH and I are going to the Dr. on the 13th to see what he thinks.

my husband has been tested and has a low count but i havnt because it is just to expencive for us right now, i have taken the in store fertility tests and it said i had good eggs and my ov tests are positive every month, i just dont know

 

[mummy2lola]

oh hun im so sorry.im like that around pg people now.when my best friend told me she was pg after first month ttc i couldnt bring myself to see her for a while and then gave myself a slap and met up with her.she has been more understanding of my needs then i ever thought possible.i thought she would alweays be talking about it but she said to me "i know this must b hard for u so if u ever wanna stay away for abit just let me know" she never speaks about it unless i ask (ive found myself actually having to push her for an answer) as she doesnt want to upset me and now shes bigger,she asks before coming to see me to see if ill be ok.My point in this long post...sorry lol is i thought id crumble at seeing her but the fact thats shes sooooo considerate and understanding actually makes me ok and happy for her.maybe ur brother and sister will turn out to do the same thing xx

 

[kaye]

So sorry that must be so hard on you and i would feel the same as you in your situation.

Keep going and sending you lots of dust::


fx'd you get your BFP very soon

 

[Mrs LB]

This is always a tough one and you can't help the way we feel - it's 'cos it means so much that we get so emotional and sometimes this brings out the worst - i look at pg women and think why can't that be me! Lots of for all of us

 

[JessieOwl]

I know how you feel! I have no advice on how to make it better, but I do have sympathy!

I have 4 mates preggo at the mo. I have 2 close friends, one at the beginning, one nearing the end, which are driving me loopy. It actually hurts to be around them at the mo. The worst is when they are complaining about pregnancy symptoms that I can only wish I had.

I feel horrible even posting this, I know that I have a terribly selfish attitude, but you do just get to a point when it feels like it's your turn!

I love them to bits, and I know it's really irrational, but I can't help but get overwhelmed by jealousy. I'm so happy for them, but I can't help how I feel and it sucks that I can't vent to the people I'd usually confide in - them!

Hang in there, and join me in making deals with the baby genies: when it is my turn I promise not complain or be unreasonably smug!

 

[sheenattc1]

oh hun im so sorry.im like that around pg people now.when my best friend told me she was pg after first month ttc i couldnt bring myself to see her for a while and then gave myself a slap and met up with her.she has been more understanding of my needs then i ever thought possible.i thought she would alweays be talking about it but she said to me "i know this must b hard for u so if u ever wanna stay away for abit just let me know" she never speaks about it unless i ask (ive found myself actually having to push her for an answer) as she doesnt want to upset me and now shes bigger,she asks before coming to see me to see if ill be ok.My point in this long post...sorry lol is i thought id crumble at seeing her but the fact thats shes sooooo considerate and understanding actually makes me ok and happy for her.maybe ur brother and sister will turn out to do the same thing xx

i must say that it is a rare thing to have a friend that loyal, i lost my bestfriend of 13 years over her selfishness, (its a long story) a year and a half ago, i realy have no one to talk to about it besides my husband and it doesnt bother me that much any more that my sister is pregnant again because its been 5 months, she finds out today what shes having, but my brother lives far from me in a different state, i think it only bothers me because he has 2 kids of his own that he doesnt see although he would like to and his girlfriend has 4, 3 of wich there still tryng to get custidy of

 

[sheenattc1]

This is always a tough one and you can't help the way we feel - it's 'cos it means so much that we get so emotional and sometimes this brings out the worst - i look at pg women and think why can't that be me! Lots of for all of us

i know what you mean, every time i pass a pregnant woman in the store i either find myself turning away from her or stairing at her without knowing it, sometimes i just want to cry

 

[mummy2lola]

i thought it was rare and thats why i stopped being so distant coz i know theres so many out there that just dont understand.how r u feeling today hun? i know it never seems fair and i definitely find myself saying "u already have x amount of kids,i only want one" imagine how cherished and loved ur bubbas gonna be at the end of all this xx

 

[sheenattc1]

I know how you feel! I have no advice on how to make it better, but I do have sympathy!

I have 4 mates preggo at the mo. I have 2 close friends, one at the beginning, one nearing the end, which are driving me loopy. It actually hurts to be around them at the mo. The worst is when they are complaining about pregnancy symptoms that I can only wish I had.

I feel horrible even posting this, I know that I have a terribly selfish attitude, but you do just get to a point when it feels like it's your turn!

I love them to bits, and I know it's really irrational, but I can't help but get overwhelmed by jealousy. I'm so happy for them, but I can't help how I feel and it sucks that I can't vent to the people I'd usually confide in - them!

Hang in there, and join me in making deals with the baby genies: when it is my turn I promise not complain or be unreasonably smug!

i feel the axact same as you, i only wish i could have what they were feeling, and it realy gets to me when people say oh you dont want to be pregnant, it sucks having all these body changes, but i would take everything with pregnancy twice as worse if i could have a baby