how do i deal with this

[danielle1987]

My cousin is living with me and oh at the minute and she found out 2 weeks ago she is pregnant, its hard because shes openly admitted she doesnt want the baby but doesnt believe in terminations, so she says she is stuck with it, its really hard because me and oh have been trying since January 08, with 2 mc and still no baby, all tests show there is nothing wrong with either one of us, thats the frustrating part i guess, i just want to become a mummy, the thing is she knows how jealous i am because i have told her, so she tends to not talk about it very much to me,

sending all you ladies loads of baby , bring on the 2010 bfp's xx

 

[Smitty]

Oh, that is so hard. I can understand why you'd be so upset. Give yourself some time to feel sorry for yourself and then get back in the game. Maybe some of their pregnant "vibes" will rub off on your and bring you good luck. Hope you get your BFP soon!!!

at my sisters last baby shower with her first child there was at least 7 pregnant girls there under 18 yrs old and i rubbed bellys with them all, it didnt work, lol

Omg, I love that you rubbed bellies!!! I want to try that with my prego friends! They will think I'm crazy though. I've also heard if you hold a baby for a long time it will give you "baby mojo" but that did not work for me either.

 

[Smitty]

My cousin is living with me and oh at the minute and she found out 2 weeks ago she is pregnant, its hard because shes openly admitted she doesnt want the baby but doesnt believe in terminations, so she says she is stuck with it, its really hard because me and oh have been trying since January 08, with 2 mc and still no baby, all tests show there is nothing wrong with either one of us, thats the frustrating part i guess, i just want to become a mummy, the thing is she knows how jealous i am because i have told her, so she tends to not talk about it very much to me,

sending all you ladies loads of baby , bring on the 2010 bfp's xx

Sorry, hun, that's tough. Hugs to you!!!

 

[daisy31]

So sorry, sending you lots of baby dust!
I am a teacher and have a child starting whose mother is an alcoholic as was his father (now deceased because he was drunk and drove his car into a tree). The child has been taken away, but the mother is trying to get him back and even worse, the mother is pregnant again and due any minute! Life is so so unfair.

 

[sheenattc1]

Oh, that is so hard. I can understand why you'd be so upset. Give yourself some time to feel sorry for yourself and then get back in the game. Maybe some of their pregnant "vibes" will rub off on your and bring you good luck. Hope you get your BFP soon!!!

at my sisters last baby shower with her first child there was at least 7 pregnant girls there under 18 yrs old and i rubbed bellys with them all, it didnt work, lol

Omg, I love that you rubbed bellies!!! I want to try that with my prego friends! They will think I'm crazy though. I've also heard if you hold a baby for a long time it will give you "baby mojo" but that did not work for me either.

yeah it was funny, i didnt know any of them but they all complied with my request and laughed about it

 

[sheenattc1]

So sorry, sending you lots of baby dust!
I am a teacher and have a child starting whose mother is an alcoholic as was his father (now deceased because he was drunk and drove his car into a tree). The child has been taken away, but the mother is trying to get him back and even worse, the mother is pregnant again and due any minute! Life is so so unfair.

yes life is unfair, people like that dont need children, when my mother was alive she was an alcoholic when i was younger and i remember being left places where i didnt know the people so she could go out and party or get drunk, my father got custody of me my sis and brother and i didnt see her for 10 years because we moved out of state, when i finaly did see her she was clean from the alcohol but on perscribed pain pilss and muscle relaxers and anti drepression meds and she was hooked to them, they eventually caused her death but not from an over dose but a mix of the drugs shut down her systom, she was not the greatest mother in the world but i lived with her, her last 3 years of life and she ws a good mom then, i am glad that my dad raised me because if he didnt i would not have turned out as good as i am today, while still my older brother took on my mothers traits my little sister isnt that bad. i guess what im saying is people realy need to straighten ther selfs out before getting pregnant, or they just shouldnt have sex at all.