How do I ease the worry?

[Crownjewelz]

I am so worried that history is going to repeat itself again. I had a loss in Oct at 9 weeks (6+5). I got my BFP on Jan 2nd and couldnt be happier about it. However, I cant stop worrying about it all of the time. I wasn't at first but now I am. I have had a few symptoms and in the last two days they have pretty much vanished. I know symptoms come and go and they are not a sign of miscarriage at all but geez could I get a lil MS to help a girl feel better? lol I've never wanted symptoms so much before. I go see my OB tomorrow so hopefully I can get a little bit of reassurance or something. I just can't relax, its killing me.

 

[SabrinaKat]

Unfortunately, you have to take it one hour/one day at a time. This is going to be hard for you as you are still in the very early stages, but hopefully, the doctor can reassure you (hcg levels increasing, etc), but scans so early might not tell you much.

I am pregnant again after an mc in August 2009 and I still worry every single day, still check the underwear, still am anxious....incidentially, I felt sore and achey (like the flu) and assumed it was the flu, and morning sickness didn't kick in until around wk 8-9 (!)

best wishes