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I haven't been on here in a few days as I thought having a break would be best to not think of what happened. I'm seeing a gyno in early August and hope to get some answers.
Where I work one of my co-workers is fifteen weeks pregnant which I'm excited about. On Sunday morning shift one of my co-workers confided in me that she took a test because her period was a week late and she got two lines, test line was faint but there.
I got over excited and told her it was a clear positive. Later on as I was doing a task on my own in the afternoon, a cloak of sadness over came me and I had little cry. I would be around 11 weeks pregnant now, so close to telling family, friends and co-workers the news. Instead I'm in a state of mourning and confusion.
I tried to talk to my husband about it on Sunday night but after fifteen minutes he said we should change the subject. I understand that he doesn't get it. His mindset is, the miscarriage proved we can get pregnant and we can try again.
When I saw my co-worker, I put on my mask of cheerfulness and listened as she arranged a doctor's appointment. All the staff were excited around her but inside I was not in a happy place.
I know my time will come when I get a sticky bean but I never knew it would hit me this hard.
How did you all cope?
Where I work one of my co-workers is fifteen weeks pregnant which I'm excited about. On Sunday morning shift one of my co-workers confided in me that she took a test because her period was a week late and she got two lines, test line was faint but there.
I got over excited and told her it was a clear positive. Later on as I was doing a task on my own in the afternoon, a cloak of sadness over came me and I had little cry. I would be around 11 weeks pregnant now, so close to telling family, friends and co-workers the news. Instead I'm in a state of mourning and confusion.
I tried to talk to my husband about it on Sunday night but after fifteen minutes he said we should change the subject. I understand that he doesn't get it. His mindset is, the miscarriage proved we can get pregnant and we can try again.
When I saw my co-worker, I put on my mask of cheerfulness and listened as she arranged a doctor's appointment. All the staff were excited around her but inside I was not in a happy place.
I know my time will come when I get a sticky bean but I never knew it would hit me this hard.
How did you all cope?