... or you do but you feel sad about it? I thought it might be helpful to share things that help us with coming to terms/seeing the bright side of being done adding to our families. Some things which help me: * Planning a holiday which we couldn't do while I was pregnant/with a baby * Packing away (mentally atm but physically later on) baby things so it feels more real * Taking up a hobby which would be hard to do with a baby * Working on getting my body into shape now that I can maintain it and I'm not thinking "there's not much point when I'll hopefully be pregnant soon and unable to maintain it". * Ditto buying clothes which fit! What do you do, or plan to do?