OM gosh .. just found this thread. Looks like it's made for me!!
I'm 44 (45 in August) DH is 42.
No kids (yet). We met, fell in total love late in life 2 yrs ago .. got married in April 2011 and that's about as long as we've been TTC for. No luck so far. Never seen a BFP. Dont know what I'd do if I saw one
I ended up getting checked out last year as I kinda knew at my age it probably was going to be a little more difficult. Saw a Dr who just did a annual pap screen, usual bloodwork, by this time I had only been TTC for 3 months. He told me to keep trying and come back the following YEAR(!) if no success. Well after discovering my pap/labs were all normal I got very close to my best pal "google" and did my own homework.
Comes to find out everything everyone here already knew. Prob not going to happen right away. Since my hubby is in the military we are always afraid he might be deployed and as time was tick tick tickin away I ended up really trying to pin point my O days and reeeally got to know my body.
Had abolutely NO CLUE about a womans menstrual cycle and what actually goes on and that it really only is a 24 hr window.
Anyways, went to a new Dr earlier this month as still nothing after all this time. He ran some tests (prolactin, thyroid and I believe one other Im unsure of which all came back great. He told me it doesnt appear I am peri-menopausal)...then referred me to an Ob Gyn where he would send over the current labs and go from there.
Apointment is set for the 27th Feb. My n the hubs cant wait!! Im hoping to have some answers within the next few months.
Sorry...bit long-winded. But I will be following this thread. Gives me some genuine HOPE for having a baby this late in my life.
CONGRATS to all you lovley ladies who've managed success!!!