I had first thought that two would be fine based on it increasing our chances of having one and worse case snarios we have twins is no big deal and we'll have to have less IVF in the future to reach our desired brood of four
However, since then i have been reading about the age of the embryos when they are implanted and if you wait until they are Blasocyst then your chances are much better of a successful implantation so asssuming that is an option that is available to me, i will have a single blastocyst transfer.
I can't help but feel that risking twins isn't worth it.
Increased risk of a c-sec.
Increased risk of premature/low birth weight babies that can't go home right away.
Less one on one intereaction with baby as it grows.
Double the financial demand.
I mean, all of these things aren't the end of the world but i personally wouldn't select to have them.
I might ofcourse change my mind if i have a failed attempt, but at least then i feel it would be justified