We live like 5 mins from both my parents and OH's mum and stepdad, so they see her usually once or twice a week. On a sunday I'll go over to mums with her while OH is working, and then his mum pops in when she collects her kids from school, as the school is right next to us. Some weeks OH's mum sees her a lot more, other weeks its my mum. It sounds bad, but I trust my mum more not to give her anything or do anything with her that I don't want her too. She follows everything I say, and rings or texts if she is unsure about what I would want. And that's what I love. OH's mum is a bit different, just the other day she took it upon herself to take her from me and get her to sleep when I said that I did NOT want her to go to sleep as it was dinner and bath time FIRST, and she would be a pain. But was I listened to? Like HELL! I probably should have been louder and more forceful with my wishes, I usually am, but I was surrounded by loads of OH's family so it was really awkward. Next time I will be I think because she screamed all the way home and was horrible to get to sleep.
Sorry, mini rant turned up in there! haha. My appologies girls. I just can't stand it when someone thinks that they know more of what is best for Robyn than I do. It really gets me down and angry.
xoxox