How much more can i take.. *now thanking all* lol

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  1. Sam_Star

    Sam_Star Mummy to a Battle Maiden

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    Im sorry for turning to you all again but after the pain of finding out my daughter has CCAM i've just been dealt another rather harsh and uncalled for blow....
    My husband wants a divorce :cry:
    I honestly dont know how much more i can take i was only asking for another hours sleep :cry: i feel like im an limbo waiting for strike 3!

    hi all i would like to thank you all for your messages x i cant "thank you" the normal way because BNB takes me back to the front page lol!!
     
    #1 Sam_Star, Apr 9, 2009
  2. cs22

    cs22 Mum and ttc# 2

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    :hugs::hugs: Hi hun, so sorry to hear your going through this :hugs::hugs:
     
    #2 cs22, Apr 9, 2009
  3. Torianna

    Torianna Well-Known Member

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    I dont know what to say, but i'm thinking of you. You can do this without your husband, if you're not happy theres no point staying together. :hug:
     
    #3 Torianna, Apr 9, 2009
  4. babystar

    babystar Guest

    :hug::hug::hug::hug:
     
    #4 babystar, Apr 9, 2009
  5. golcarlilly

    golcarlilly Proud mum of 2

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    Oh hun :hugs:

    Has this just come out of the blue?
     
    #5 golcarlilly, Apr 9, 2009
  6. joeyjo

    joeyjo Mum to 2boys, growing #3

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    :hugs::hugs: Sorry to hear you are having such a rubbish time :hugs::hugs:

    I don't know your background so forgive me if I'm intruding too much but I just wondered if maybe your husband is acting out because he too is so upset and worried after the scan. I hope that is all it is and that you manage to pull together again, if that is what you want. :hugs::hugs:

    Thinking of you.
     
    #6 joeyjo, Apr 9, 2009
  7. PrincessSoph

    PrincessSoph Well-Known Member

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    awww hun :hugs: thats awful. and to ask after you've just found out about your lil girl. hope it is juswt the case of what JoeyJo says and hes just upset about the scan :hugs:
     
    #7 PrincessSoph, Apr 9, 2009
  8. LittlePickle

    LittlePickle Well-Known Member

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    Oh Sam... *hugs*

    What was the context of the conversation that lead to Divorce coming into it?

    LP
    xox
     
    #8 LittlePickle, Apr 9, 2009
  9. MishC

    MishC Has a little princess!!

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    Oh dear that's awful i hope your ok.

    Do your family live close by? If so maybe you could go stay with them for a few weeks to give yourself some space and have some time to think and your family could help you.
     
    #9 MishC, Apr 9, 2009
  10. lisa_33

    lisa_33 Well-Known Member

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    aww hun, i dont know what to say, your going through so much. i am thinking of you xx
     
    #10 lisa_33, Apr 9, 2009
  11. Chaos

    Chaos Mum to one =)

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    https://i74.photobucket.com/albums/i260/ChaoticOtter/Smileys/consoling2.gif

    I'm sorry you're going through this.
     
    #11 Chaos, Apr 9, 2009
  12. staceymy

    staceymy Mummy To Two Princesses

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    So sorry your having a rubbish time. *hugs*
     
    #12 staceymy, Apr 9, 2009
  13. dizzy duck

    dizzy duck Mummy to Oliver

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    Aww hun, you really are going through it, Im hoping its down to the shock of the scan and hope you can work things out, thinking of you, take care :hugs: XX
     
    #13 dizzy duck, Apr 9, 2009
  14. tmr1234

    tmr1234 Guest

    :hug::hug: I really dont know what to say :hug: chin up hunny
     
    #14 tmr1234, Apr 9, 2009
  15. Sam_Star

    Sam_Star Mummy to a Battle Maiden

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    I think it was the shock of everything he has apologised but i feel so hurt by it :cry:
    I was up all night with my little man because he's ill and woke him up this morning asking him too take the baby for the morning so that i could hae some sleep and he just popped a gasket!!!
     
    #15 Sam_Star, Apr 9, 2009
  16. Lorien

    Lorien Well-Known Member

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    Maybe some couples counseling would give you both some resources to get through this challenging time?

    BIG hugs.
     
    #16 Lorien, Apr 9, 2009
  17. CamoQueen

    CamoQueen Mom of 2 & 1 on the way!

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    Aww, I'm so sorry, this must be a really tough time for you and your husband. He obviously was just way overreacting from stress and worry... I'm glad he's apologized but he still has some major butt kissing to do! You definitely did NOT need fear of divorce added to your worries!!!
     
    #17 CamoQueen, Apr 9, 2009
  18. Armywife

    Armywife Mummy to 2 beauties

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    Thinking of you and sending big hugs. I'm sorry you're having a hard time and i hope things start to look up soon x x x Lots of love x x x
     
    #18 Armywife, Apr 9, 2009
  19. Mimiso

    Mimiso Mum of three

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    Aaawww Sam, that must have been so hard for you to deal with on top of everything else. So pleased he didnt mean it, all the best, hugs xxx
     
    #19 Mimiso, Apr 9, 2009
  20. tillymum

    tillymum New mom

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    Awww :hug: sorry to hear this.
     
    #20 tillymum, Apr 9, 2009
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