How often does your OH go out with friends (without you)?

[greenpear]

Thank you all for input and kind thoughts. yesterday we had a talk about lying and balancing things. He apologized and said he'll work on not lying. I suggested he go see someone to help him with that (like a counsellor) but he refused and said he'll do it on his own. I don't know if he'll succeed but I'm glad he's trying. I did tell him it will take a long time for me to trust him fully again. I really hope we'll get to that point.

Also on balance. He promised to prioritize things better and spend more time with us and LO. I encouraged him to go to gym and see friends too but also talked about seeing friends as family. The problem is that most of his friends are not married or have no kids as in Canada people tend to have kids much later so that's why it's been more of a problem because my friends like myself are East European and most have kids or families so it's easier to hang with my friends as families as we have similar interests, but his friends are more into bars and family unrelated stuff.

I hope for the best though. Again, thanks for everyone's support ~

 

[Unexpected212]

About once a month or less. I'm always invited to go with but obviously I'd prefer he have a guys night I'd feel a bit weird tagging along and pregnant lol. I also go out about once a month to see the girls for cocktails (well used to be cocktails) now it's for dinners etc.

When I was pregnant with my first he was out TOO much and it nearly split us up. When our son arrived he grew up a LOT.

 

[ashlee2916]

i try and get my oh out the house to go out without me, dont care what he does (obviously apart from cheating) as i love having the bed to myself and love the peace and quiet lol and not watch his trashy tv shows!
hes joining the navy in june so i can starfish in my bed without him snoring yay!!!!!!