angel2010
Cart & Emma's mom, 1mc
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How do you ladies tell people (in conversation, not just throwing it out there) how you parent or about your birth choices without offending. For example, I hate saying "oh, we don't let Carter eat X" to friends because I feel like they will be like "oh, so we are bad parents because we do".
Once while talking with friends I mentioned that I was doing erf, then all of a sudden one of them was telling me all these reasons why they don't.
So far I haven't told any of my friends about my homebirth wishes. Basically I can't tell them any of my birth wishes (extended skin-to-skin, delayed cord clamping, etc) because I feel that they will look at me like I have a third eye.
I just wish people would understand that just because I do things this way or that doesn't mean I think they are bad. I really couldn't care how they do things. I just wish more people were as open minded and educated as women are on this forum.
Once while talking with friends I mentioned that I was doing erf, then all of a sudden one of them was telling me all these reasons why they don't.
So far I haven't told any of my friends about my homebirth wishes. Basically I can't tell them any of my birth wishes (extended skin-to-skin, delayed cord clamping, etc) because I feel that they will look at me like I have a third eye.
I just wish people would understand that just because I do things this way or that doesn't mean I think they are bad. I really couldn't care how they do things. I just wish more people were as open minded and educated as women are on this forum.