How to remember what would of been my baby's due date?

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Baby I m/c would of been due on 27th April and am trying too think of a way to honour this as don't want to just let it pass, has anyone else been in this situation and done anything that helped them grieve?
 
For my first angel we tend to buy a birthday card for the age they would have been, and write a small letter from mummy and daddy in it, and light a candle, we then keep the card in a memories box along with the letters I write from time to time.

For Seb we've decided we don't want to celebrate his due date, but his actual birthday, because that's the day he came into our lives.

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a good friend of mine and her hubby planted a cherry tree in the local park, they asked permission first! They can watch it grow and grow and although its sad its something that gave them comfort :)
 
My boys were born sleeping on 9th feb alough they weren't due until july. OH & I will be celebrating their actual birthday when they were born rather than their due date alough i just know once their due date comes around it will be very sad for us!
 
My EP baby would be due 16th Sept and i'd be 12 weeks 4 days today :(

I know im lucky enough to be pregnant again but a loss is a loss and it will be with me forever.

I dont know what im going to do in sept, maybe plant a little rose bush in the garden or something like that x
 
My EP baby would be due 16th Sept and i'd be 12 weeks 4 days today :(

I know im lucky enough to be pregnant again but a loss is a loss and it will be with me forever.

I dont know what im going to do in sept, maybe plant a little rose bush in the garden or something like that x

Lou, im the same as you my DD would have been 6 Aug and I have also just found out that I am expecting some time in Nov. A rosebush sounds like a beautiful idea. I may just do the same.
 
I'm waiting to m/c but was thinking of maybe planting a rosebush or something similar to remember what would have been the due date. x
 

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