wlovew
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Hi ladies,
First off let me state that I am 32, financially independent and stable, living alone in a 2-bedroom apartment and very happy with where my life is going!! That being said, I am now 7+2 and I have yet to tell the baby's father (39, not so stable) that I'm expecting... It's a really long, complicated story but to keep it as brief as I can: He's an ex boyfriend, on and off for the last 12+ years. I've been pregnant by him before about 7 years ago and it was a terrible experience. I wanted to keep it, he was dead against it and eventually conned me into terminating promising that we will "get married and do it right". He broke up with me a week after I had the abortion. Can't explain why I ever got back with him after that, I don't even know. Insanity, expecting things to change?? Anyway, we've been broken up for over 2 years now and started sleeping together here and there in September last year. In December I found out I was pregnant after the condom came off inside me and Plan-B failed. I haven't spoken to him since December 29, when he gave me a ride home from the airport after my holiday trip with my family. I found out I was pregnant December 30. I know he won't be supportive, he will sh!t his pants and flip out on me and be a f*cking jerk just like he was last time. I really don't want to hear it. I'm having this baby. I'm happy to have a baby. I just really don't know when or how to even tell him. I want to wait until I'm 14 weeks, when I go find the sex of the baby at a 3D ultrasound I scheduled. Thinking maybe I should never tell him, or say it's not his. I really don't even know. Sometimes I want to tell him NOW because I'm so sick and miserable and some stupid part of me thinks *maybe* he will go to the store for me when I need stuff lol Fat chance. Anyway, sorry this is off topic. I do have MISERABLE nausea for the last almost 2 weeks. Tired. Getting fatter from laying on my ass for the last 2 weeks sick. Blah! Having an ultrasound tomorrow and I can't wait to see how much the little blueberry has grown in the last 6 days!!
First off let me state that I am 32, financially independent and stable, living alone in a 2-bedroom apartment and very happy with where my life is going!! That being said, I am now 7+2 and I have yet to tell the baby's father (39, not so stable) that I'm expecting... It's a really long, complicated story but to keep it as brief as I can: He's an ex boyfriend, on and off for the last 12+ years. I've been pregnant by him before about 7 years ago and it was a terrible experience. I wanted to keep it, he was dead against it and eventually conned me into terminating promising that we will "get married and do it right". He broke up with me a week after I had the abortion. Can't explain why I ever got back with him after that, I don't even know. Insanity, expecting things to change?? Anyway, we've been broken up for over 2 years now and started sleeping together here and there in September last year. In December I found out I was pregnant after the condom came off inside me and Plan-B failed. I haven't spoken to him since December 29, when he gave me a ride home from the airport after my holiday trip with my family. I found out I was pregnant December 30. I know he won't be supportive, he will sh!t his pants and flip out on me and be a f*cking jerk just like he was last time. I really don't want to hear it. I'm having this baby. I'm happy to have a baby. I just really don't know when or how to even tell him. I want to wait until I'm 14 weeks, when I go find the sex of the baby at a 3D ultrasound I scheduled. Thinking maybe I should never tell him, or say it's not his. I really don't even know. Sometimes I want to tell him NOW because I'm so sick and miserable and some stupid part of me thinks *maybe* he will go to the store for me when I need stuff lol Fat chance. Anyway, sorry this is off topic. I do have MISERABLE nausea for the last almost 2 weeks. Tired. Getting fatter from laying on my ass for the last 2 weeks sick. Blah! Having an ultrasound tomorrow and I can't wait to see how much the little blueberry has grown in the last 6 days!!