welshwarriors
Joseph & Charlotte's Mum
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Nobody can say that a Mum aged 30 is a better mum than a Mum who is 20. I think it depends on the indiviual and her development.
Never in a million yrs I would have considered having a baby at 18/19 or 20. I wanted to finish my education, I wanted to be married and I wanted to have lived life a bit and grow up a bit. lol
When we started to TTC I was 23, we were married for nearly 6 months and we both REALLY wanted this (which is pretty important in my eyes too, that both want it) and I just finished college. It was the perfect time for me.
I defo think that girls should finish their education and then consider having children. I know a few mum's who had their children early and struggled to go back into education and I know a few who didn't bother at all and just kept having children.
(This is my personal opinion)
Never in a million yrs I would have considered having a baby at 18/19 or 20. I wanted to finish my education, I wanted to be married and I wanted to have lived life a bit and grow up a bit. lol
When we started to TTC I was 23, we were married for nearly 6 months and we both REALLY wanted this (which is pretty important in my eyes too, that both want it) and I just finished college. It was the perfect time for me.
I defo think that girls should finish their education and then consider having children. I know a few mum's who had their children early and struggled to go back into education and I know a few who didn't bother at all and just kept having children.
(This is my personal opinion)