We have been trying since September 08 and because I am so impatient as soon as we got to the 18month point I went to the Dr's.My husband has two children from a previous marriage and whilst that was a while ago I guess we know his swimmers can work. I have had the blood tests and obviuosly the HSG and have the internal ultra sound on 20 May.
Have you tried asking your partner to take multi vitamins? Mine takes the Sanatogen father to be ones. I think there re things that can be done to help improve the sperm function so dont give up hope.
I am quite worried about Chlamydia. One of my ex-partners had numerous sexual affairs none of which he used protection for whilst of course I was also having unprotected sex with him. I know its something I should have got checked out at the time but it is very embarassing (a poor excuse I know

). I am just hoping that everything is okay in this respect.
Hey!
OH has been very good with taking vitamins, he now has Selenium, Zinc, and Pycnogenol every day. He has also stopped smoking. Drink is harder though as there always seems to be something that needs to be celebrated. I think it's harder for blokes as well, socialising revolves around drinking.
Our problem with the swimmers has come as a big shock. When he was younger he got someone pregnant so we were so surprised when those results weren't good. Hopefully the vitamins will help!
I think you would know by now if you had it. I'm also pretty sure that they test you for STD's when they are checking fertility as well. You could always get a test from Boots - I think they sell them now. Much less embarassing! You will probably feel better once you know for certain.
Just read my post back what with the Chlamydia and pregnancy, OH and I must look like a right pair!!