Hubby with low sex drive and late ovulation

[yourstruly10]

Hi ladies.

I hope you are all doing well.
My hubby has a very low sex drive caused by long term use of anti depressants So bd has become difficult sometimes. I thought I typically ovulated between cd 12-14 so we have been BD since cd 13. Somehow this month I ended up with a late ovulation. I ended up with my first positive test yesterday Noon. We bd again last night but now I'm worried if it's 24-48 hours after I don't think hubby will be up for it again this evening. 3 days in a row is already a lot for him. If someone coukd take a look at my chart below and tell me if you think we've done enough that would be great. Or do I find a way to get him going tonight one last time.

 

[Smille24]

I'd say you did enough. Your temp is already on the rise so you probably already ovulated. If he's up for it go ahead and dtd but I doubt it's necessary. My dh suffers with low sex drive as well bc of shift work and long hrs. He manages when I need him but I feel horrible sometimes.

 

[yourstruly10]

Thanks smille24.

I appreciate the response. I feel so guilty some days but he's such a good sport and tries so hard. I think I'll leave it up to him to decide tonight. Worst case it doesn't take and we try again next month.

 

[lisap2008]

I agree I think you BD enough your best chance for conception is doing it leading up to ovulation because you want the sperm waiting on the egg , rather then the egg waiting on sperm. My husband is on many supplements to help his libido and sperm count we used to only be able to do it once a week now were doing it every other day ,a major improvement to before .

 

[yourstruly10]

Ok so this is really weird. I got another positive this morning. Do I count 24 hours to O from the first one or the second one?

 

[Smille24]

It's 12-36 hrs after the 1st positive.