We just found out that I'm 7 weeks pregnant yesterday. We already have 2 ds, a 3 yo and a 10 month old. We're financially stable and own our own home. Granted, it's 3 bedrooms plus an office (which definitely needs to stay an office since my dh works from home), so two children will need to share a room. My husband has always said just two children, but after our second he didn't get a vasectomy. We used comdoms, and intended on doing something more permanent in the future. I was open to the idea of more children, but also ok with just two. This pregnancy is a complete surprise. I honestly don't know what happened. But now my husband is devastated. He has barely spoken to me since we found out yesterday, and all that he's said is please get an abortion. I know in my heart I could never do that. Has anybody else ever faced this, and did their husband eventually come around? He says he will never be able to love this new child. I don't understand how he could say that, because even unwanted it is still his. He's a very good dad to our current two children. Please help!!! I don't want our marriage to be over, but could never kill my baby.