I am a horrible selfish woman!!!

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  1. Steph

    Steph Well-Known Member

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    Well...it had to happen some day...

    made a wee group of friends when we first started trying to conceive and the first of the girls has just had her BFP...they've been trying a lot longer than us and they're both such lovely people and deserve this so much but I can't help feeling reallllllly gutted, well not gutted...cos it's good news but...wierd.

    I always imagined i'd be so excited and over the moon and while i'm so so thrilled for them both, I have this selfish niggling thing in my head :(

    I am evil
     
  2. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    We all do it Steph, dont worry :hugs:
     
  3. KX

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    It's undersandable to have a bit resentment, think that's human nature.

    Hun, don't feel bad, keep my fingers crossed for a BFP for you. :hugs:
     
  4. Steph

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    I know but i just didnt expect to resent her :( she's so lovely, i resent random people in the street lol
     
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    Caroline Proud Mum of 4

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    :hugs: I think its aperfectly normal reaction to have. Hope you get a BFP soon
     
  7. loulou1980

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    aww hun im like that,its perfectly natural,there is a scabby bitch by us that dont deserve kids and shes pregnant,the first one got taken into care and the one before didnt survive as she used to punch herself in the stomach and mutilate herslef to damage the baby for attention,the baby came out with its face smashed up,it pisses me off people like that dont deserve kids yet shes having another just for it to be taken off her.aaarrrgghhhh i could give that baby more love than it ever needed and let it know that its wanted,

    sorry got carried away but its soo close a subject to my heart :hugs:
     
  8. Layla

    Layla Well-Known Member

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    I understand hun, dont be so hard on yourself.

    xx
     
  9. Wobbles

    Wobbles WoBbLeWoBbLe
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    Your not horrible or selfish Steph as Layla said don't be so hard on yourself.

    :hugs: x
     
  10. Steph

    Steph Well-Known Member

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    Lou that's terrible, makes you wonder all these people that say you get sent a miracle and stuff, what have we done wrong then?if people like her get chances all the time...

    went all holier than thou there
     
  11. Tam

    Tam Mum of 2 - PG with No.3

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    You are not selfish hun, I would imagine it would be the same for everyone in your position, on one hand you are pleased, and on the other "why can't it be me".......it is nature babe, not selfishness!! HUGE :hugs: x
     
  12. Iwantone!!!

    Iwantone!!! Well-Known Member

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    ur not evil it all happen someone get there before u and get what u want it hurts :(
     

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