I am so mad right now! what do you think?

[mordino]

I like what Loki said.

Definitely change doctors. I would be so pissed too!

 

[Heidi84]

Ok this person didn't have to be so rude but what she said about miscarriage is true. My doctor saw me at 8 weeks with my first and said "now if you start to bleed or anything just call and let us know. Miscarriages are common in the first trimester." I was upset but it's the truth.

All we can do is know that our bodies know when something isn't alright. Everything happens for a reason.

I'd say get another dr if you want but more than likely they will say something similar. Maybe in a more gentle way.

In any case, much love to you and your family.

Happy Holidays!

Hey there, i am quite concious that pregnancies are delicate the first trimester but the way she said it was so evil. And she even gave a short strange smile, in a very sarcastic way. I don't know even how to explain the way she talked to me. It was just evil!

Anyway i will change dr, i am not confortable with someone that tells me to stop eating cause i have put on weight, when all i wish is to eat a little cause i vomit 24/24 hours.

Hope you have a better dr than mine

God bless you!

 

[td1309]

It is awful that your dr said that. As if you don't spend every minute worrying about what might go wrong when pregnant anyway I don't think any woman needs reminding that the 1st tri is risky but what we need from others is pma and encouragement - especially the so called professionals!

What if you had a high-risk job would they prefer you didn't tell work then?! Stupid advise if you ask me! (Although you already know that).

Change drs and know that at 9 wks and 3 days your baby almost certainly has a heartbeat by now and therefore your risk of mc will have dropped considerably! Wishing you a long, healthy and happy pregnancy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[HollySSmith]

I've already told my work. We only have like 4 staff and work very closely. They rely on me heavily so if (or when) MS starts they would know something was going on. I also needed to tell them as my job is physically demanding and I wanted reduce what they expected of me in that respect. My work is very supportive (to the point my DH doesn't even believe it) and we are very close friends.
As for your DR. I would say switch immediately. We all know that things could go wrong. It seems to me she was probably embarrassed by the fact you caught her mistake. You and your baby both deserve better than that kind of treatment. My sister had horrible MS and she was so thankful that her DR was supportive and helpful and you have a right to the same.

 

[nineena]

OMG i cant believe professional people that are there to provide support and reassurance an be so rude and innapropriate. I'd definitaley complain to the manager of the practice and switch doctors that really is horrendous treatment. hugs xxx

 

[Heidi84]

Yeah, my husband will call her on Monday to cancel the appointment and have a chat with her. I have found already another dr and this time I am going to see a man, friends have confirmed that they can be better and less jealous than women.

I had to fight so much today with the negatives thoughts, it never happend before to be so scared about miscarring like I was today, and kept praying every moment...I can't even believe that a dr. can actually bring you to this point of craziness!

Anyway i miss my dr. in USA. Here in France the health system is strange...