I cant take it anymore.

[shanmorgan97]

I cannot handle this anymore. Everyone around me is getting pregnant and all it does is piss me off(excuse my language). I am usually a very optimistic person, but right now I just want to cry. My sister in law all of a sudden is thinking about ttc# 2, when before my brother and her did not even want kids at all. My nephew was not planned. Another relative is pregnant with a guy she just met....it's just too much to handle sometimes. Sorry for this rant.

 

[shanmorgan97]

**Nothing against people that are pregnant** Just my family in general is what I am talking about.

 

[Ginnie]

No need to apologize--we've all been there. Right around the time DH and I were beginning to figure out it would not be easy for us to conceive, two cousins and an ex announced their pregnancies. NO ONE in the family (aside from a 16 year old) was interested in getting pregnant until we wanted to, but couldn't.

Sometimes, irony is just a mean little witch.

Best of luck.

 

[shanmorgan97]

It truly is. I am usually not like this, but right at the moment i cannot help myself. Thanks for the reply.

 

[jeoestreich]

I feel the same way sometimes. I have been trying for 2.5 years and I am always like why isn't my turn yet.

 

[whimesy3]

I think almost everyone on here can understand how you feel. There seems to be a baby boom right now. At least with all of my friends. It seems they are all getting pregnant, and only 2 of those were actually planned, and one of my friends that planned it got pregnant on her 2nd try.

This is my first month of actually trying, and I already know I am not pregnant, so I am feeling very discuraged. Before that I was NTNP for 10 months and never had an "accident"... So I feel like there is something wrong with me.

 

[shanmorgan97]

I think almost everyone on here can understand how you feel. There seems to be a baby boom right now. At least with all of my friends. It seems they are all getting pregnant, and only 2 of those were actually planned, and one of my friends that planned it got pregnant on her 2nd try.

This is my first month of actually trying, and I already know I am not pregnant, so I am feeling very discuraged. Before that I was NTNP for 10 months and never had an "accident"... So I feel like there is something wrong with me.

You are very right, right now seems the time to get pregnant. I have been technically ntnp for over a year and finally this month we decided to dtd every other day to cover all basis. I am hoping this is it.

 

[shanmorgan97]

I also know how it feels to already know your out for a cycle. When I felt like this I would just keep doing research and plan better for next time. Lets hope that is not the case tho! GL!!!

 

[Mellymommy]

I feel the same way. People are getting pregnant so quick and all i see is pregnant woman. At work there are already 4 pregnant ladies and it makes me so depro. Wish it was me!

Good Luck by the way hope you get your BFP soon!

 

[feelinglucky]

i understand completely...i hate seeing so many girls/women getting pregnant by "accident" and then coming here and reading about so many women doing everything they can with no luck :sad: ...hopefully our "accidents" are right around the corner....

 

[2bmommy]

This is our fourth month trying and Im praying that we get a positive this month. I dont think I can handle another negitive. This month we are trying to take it easy and not obsess with trying (thats hard to). I've been told to have sex every two days, this way it give my hubbys body time to build up sperm. Before we were doing it everyday sometimes twice a day. Im praying this is the month! Good luck to everyone!!!!

 

[lalababa]

It's very hard I know and it is good to rant. Keep strong, prey and you will get your dream.

 

[Jen.Uh.Fur]

I totally understand the frustration. Accidents seem to be way easier than actually ttc. I'm not just frustrated for myself though. It angers me that there are so many people that having been trying for so long, and then all these people have an oops, and are pregnant.

When I found out about how my cousin got his girlfriend pregnant, I was angry and upset. Neither of them have a job, and she has a baby that just turned 1 from another relationship, they shouldn't be having a baby!

Had I known it was this hard to get pregnant, I wouldn't have prevented it so hard for so many years. OH has a 6 year old from a previous relationship. He hadn't meant to get her pregnant at that time. His joke before we started TTC was that I would be pregnant the first time around, he was definitely surprised when it didn't happen the first couple months.

Just try to stay positive that your time will be coming!