Thank you for voicing exactly how I feel.. Yes, even the 13mth part. Has been 13mths for me too.
I Confess.....
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Thank you for voicing exactly how I feel.. Yes, even the 13mth part. Has been 13mths for me too.
Yup! I know the feeling.
although i have already posted confessions I have some moreand
does he not realise it takes two to make a baby!
I confess.. its all i think about, 24/7 its stressing me out...how do you switch it off!! its constant, will I be good , will i have a healthy baby!, will I MC, etc etc constantly.
I confess....I worry I might not get my BFP as I have PCOS, which will crush me as when I was pregnant years ago.. I had to make the choice to abort...which will crush me knowing I had one and couldnt keep it
Same thing for me with EVERYTHING you said.
TTC Confessions:
I confess that I roll my eyes when people are frustrated with TTC after 2 months.
I confess that I'm jealous with people that get pregnant easily and don't have any health issues standing in their way.
I confess that every time I get AF I still hold out hope I got pregnant.
Thanks for the thread...feels good to get things off my chest
Yeah. This is a great thread. And I hear you abt those that have been TTC for 2mths. Please calm the F down! 2mths is really not that long. There, I got that off my chest.
I made the mistake of telling my best friend we were TTC and now I deeply regret it. I told her initially when we were preventing and when we took the IUD out, I didnt want to seem like a hypocrite to wind up pregnant soon after. So I had to tell her that we had taken the IUD out. Not sure what would have been a better solution in this case. She lives in another country. Now when we talk on the phone, she doesnt ask me directly about our TTC efforts but I know she is wondering.
I confess... that I am confused abt this month. Dont know what else to do. I feel like we did everything last month and still BFN. No energy left over for this month.
I confess I am not excited about BD-ing. It will probably be quickies. We tried making love all of last month and it didnt work. Dont have the energy to put any romance in our BD-ing so good luck to DH for getting it up. Just get it in and be done with it. Might even sit this month out.
I confess that I am so sick of Beyonce's baby bump, her overexposure of it and all the media hype. At this rate, she might as well be having Baby Jesus.
So sick of every other pregnant celeb and Jennifer Garner who seems to get pregnant every time, right on schedule. I know she secretly wants a boy and will keep popping those kids out till she gets that boy for Ben. How is this any of my business? It is not.
I confess that I wonder whether Barack and Michelle's TTC efforts caused as much emotional tension as it is doing between DH and I. They were TTC for 6 yrs. I hope it doesnt take us that long! But they emerged a stronger couple so maybe this is the good that will come out of this process.
I confess that I cant believe that abt a year ago, I didnt want a baby just yet. But now it is all I can think of!
I confess that this TTC process has made me a recluse and an angry person. I dont call people to check on them anymore. I don't answer calls sometimes. Two weeks ago, my cousin hit me up on facebook chat and I was so down about TTC that I really wasn't in the mood to chat. So I told him I was too busy right now. Two days ago, he was found dead. I stilll feel guilty that he reached out to me but I was so obsessed with TTC that I passed on my last opportunity to chat wit him. He said he was concerned about me and hadnt heard from me in a while. I feel like we waste so much time TTC while life passes us by. It was a brief lesson but then I went back to my old ways. I still wont behave any differently. What else can we do? What are our options? We want a baby. That is all I can think about.
I confess that I cant go to bed now cos I am secretly scared of my cousin's ghost. Dh is away this whole wknd. Maybe I should have taken his advice and slept over at a friend's. The last time he was gone, I enjoyed the break so much. Today is much different.
I confess that I have become more open in talking about our TTC efforts and seeking help from anyone who may have had that experience or might have some expertise. In the beginning, I used to avoid that discussion and close off anyone who wanted to offer some advice. But right now, what else do I have to lose?
I confess that this first pregnancy was just with precum, on our first date for less than a minute of fooling around (and me changing my mind) and I still wound up pregnant. And now with all the bells and whistles and all the planning, still no baby. How is that possible?
I confess a 1000x that if I knew TTC would be this hard, I wouldnt have been on birth control ever after meeting DH.
I confess that I should have started sooner.
I confess that I should pray about this more instead of spending time charting, testing, researching, popping drugs etc. All that is good, but like my Mom would say, you still need the God factor.
I confess that I want twins badly from God to make up for all the lost time.
I confess that if not twins, then a little boy for DH. He has waited a long time in his life to have kids and that is all he wants now. He doesnt care about the sex but I think a little him would be nice. I have a secret feeling that he wants a little girl though when you ask him, he says any sex would make him happy.
I confess that every time this employee of mine takes days off due to some problem w her pregnancy, I want to tell her to just suck it up or find another job. I confess that I am very jealous.
I confess I am not excited about BD-ing. It will probably be quickies. We tried making love all of last month and it didnt work. Dont have the energy to put any romance in our BD-ing so good luck to DH for getting it up. Just get it in and be done with it. Might even sit this month out.
I confess that I am so sick of Beyonce's baby bump, her overexposure of it and all the media hype. At this rate, she might as well be having Baby Jesus.
So sick of every other pregnant celeb and Jennifer Garner who seems to get pregnant every time, right on schedule. I know she secretly wants a boy and will keep popping those kids out till she gets that boy for Ben. How is this any of my business? It is not.
I confess that I wonder whether Barack and Michelle's TTC efforts caused as much emotional tension as it is doing between DH and I. They were TTC for 6 yrs. I hope it doesnt take us that long! But they emerged a stronger couple so maybe this is the good that will come out of this process.
I confess that I cant believe that abt a year ago, I didnt want a baby just yet. But now it is all I can think of!
I confess that this TTC process has made me a recluse and an angry person. I dont call people to check on them anymore. I don't answer calls sometimes. Two weeks ago, my cousin hit me up on facebook chat and I was so down about TTC that I really wasn't in the mood to chat. So I told him I was too busy right now. Two days ago, he was found dead. I stilll feel guilty that he reached out to me but I was so obsessed with TTC that I passed on my last opportunity to chat wit him. He said he was concerned about me and hadnt heard from me in a while. I feel like we waste so much time TTC while life passes us by. It was a brief lesson but then I went back to my old ways. I still wont behave any differently. What else can we do? What are our options? We want a baby. That is all I can think about.
I confess that I cant go to bed now cos I am secretly scared of my cousin's ghost.
Dh is away this whole wknd. Maybe I should have taken his advice and slept over at a friend's. The last time he was gone, I enjoyed the break so much. Today is much different.I confess that I have become more open in talking about our TTC efforts and seeking help from anyone who may have had that experience or might have some expertise. In the beginning, I used to avoid that discussion and close off anyone who wanted to offer some advice. But right now, what else do I have to lose?
I confess that this first pregnancy was just with precum, on our first date for less than a minute of fooling around (and me changing my mind) and I still wound up pregnant. And now with all the bells and whistles and all the planning, still no baby. How is that possible?
I confess a 1000x that if I knew TTC would be this hard, I wouldnt have been on birth control ever after meeting DH.
I confess that I should have started sooner.
I confess that I should pray about this more instead of spending time charting, testing, researching, popping drugs etc. All that is good, but like my Mom would say, you still need the God factor.
I confess that I want twins badly from God to make up for all the lost time.
I confess that if not twins, then a little boy for DH. He has waited a long time in his life to have kids and that is all he wants now. He doesnt care about the sex but I think a little him would be nice. I have a secret feeling that he wants a little girl though when you ask him, he says any sex would make him happy.
I confess that every time this employee of mine takes days off due to some problem w her pregnancy, I want to tell her to just suck it up or find another job. I confess that I am very jealous.
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I confess that it feels like everyone i have befriended on here this month has miraculously gotten a 
THATS NOT FAIR 
THATS NOT FAIR I confess that seeing my friend's FB update about how tired she is from being up with her baby p'd me off big time. Does she not know how much some people would love to be up all night with their kid?
I confess that finding out my sister in law is having IVF this week has sent me into a tailspin. Now I'm not just hoping I get pregnant this month but hoping that we both do. I'm feeling worried about how hurtful it will be for her if I get pregnant and she doesn't and how hurtful it will be for me if she gets pregnant and I don't. And how much it will suck all around if neither of us do.
I confess that finding out my sister in law is having IVF this week has sent me into a tailspin. Now I'm not just hoping I get pregnant this month but hoping that we both do. I'm feeling worried about how hurtful it will be for her if I get pregnant and she doesn't and how hurtful it will be for me if she gets pregnant and I don't. And how much it will suck all around if neither of us do.
