I don't want a BFP

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  1. Kimmer

    Kimmer Mummy to a beautiful baby

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    I don't want to do pregnancy tests, i don't want to worry about lack of symptoms, i don't want to go to a scan and panic that the baby died. I just want to be pregnant.
    I want everything to be perfect.

    I want to stop feeling like this!:cry:
     
  2. becsparkel

    becsparkel Mummy to George

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    Hey Kimmer, I'm sorry you're feeling like that big :hugs: love!! I don't know what to say to make you feel better except that this is a good place to vent and let your feelings out... we're all here for you :friends:

    xxx
     
  3. Kimmer

    Kimmer Mummy to a beautiful baby

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    Thanks love. I'm not expecting people to be able to help, it's just nice to let itout on here. I don't want my husband to get all my stress. This month is hard!
     
  4. Toria09

    Toria09 Well-Known Member

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    Megg33k Going with the flow!

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    I agree and sympathize! I have my FX'd that you get to just be pregnant and have everything be perfect!!! :hugs:
     
  6. Kiki09

    Kiki09 Mummy to a miracle

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    sending you :hugs: i have plenty of days like that too, never imagined all these worries came with pregnancy until we started trying, I was sooo naive or maybe blissfully ignorant to it all, TTC is much harder than I ever thought it would be.... but this place is great for days when you feel it is really getting to you...
     
  7. buffy

    buffy Well-Known Member

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    Hi chick,
    Totally know how you feel. Sometimes in life it feels like nothing is straight forward! I am having one of "those days" today as well. xx
     
  8. mlyn26

    mlyn26 Mummy to Isaac & Jasmine

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    Hugs to you sweetheart. I hope your perfect pregnancy comes soon. Best wishes xx
     
  9. genies girl

    genies girl Well-Known Member

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    Your not alone! im a total worryier and now since ttc ive got a whole new lot of things to worry about and theres just not enough time in the day.
    Hope it works out for you really soon xx
     
  10. rani36

    rani36 Well-Known Member

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    Hi kimmer.

    I know exactly how u feel,i do to think like that to sometimes and its sooooo frustrating that we cant hurry up and get our babys in our arms.LIFE SUCKS big time but you will get their in the end,chin up.xx
     
  11. Mrs.T

    Mrs.T c'mmon BFP!!!!

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    i know how you feel. and i really appreciate this site coz im learning lots of stuff and its easier to release our emotions here.

    We'll have our BFP soon, dont worry! I know it. :hugs:
     
  12. claire911

    claire911 Mum to Max :)

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    Hey kimmer, I had a day like that yesterday but feel abit more postive today. Big hugs and baby dust to you :) x
     
  13. MsLesley

    MsLesley Well-Known Member

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    you said it best and i think most of use can and do relate!

    :hugs:
     
  14. lvh05

    lvh05 Stick, baby, stick!!

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    I went in for my 12 week scan and found out that my angel didn't have a heartbeat.

    So, DH and I joke that this time, we're going to just ignore that I'm prego, not test, and go on 'I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant!' It was just sooo heartbreaking. that I cannot imagine going through it again. But, I know in my heart, no matter what I would keep going just to be able to hold that tiny little person in my arms.

    But, I do have to say, when I get pregnant again, and I go in for that scan and I see that strong heartbeat, it is going to make it infinitely more special.

    I think the resilience and strength I see in the women here (especially the mommies with multiple angels and ones who keep going, no matter how frustrating) is amazing. The best you can do is provide a safe home for the baby in utero, with good prenatal care. And, everything else is up to God, IMO.

    It's an experience that really is scary to think about, but nothing worth getting comes without fear.

    :dust:!
     
  15. Liz2

    Liz2 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry Honey!!! Tons of love and hugs your way:hugs::hugs:
     
  16. Kimmer

    Kimmer Mummy to a beautiful baby

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    Thank you so much for all your comments. I know there are some ladies that go through hell on here, I'm just not strong enough for heartache.
    I hope we all get our stress-free, perfect BFP's soon!
     

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