mod19
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So I'm not in the third tri yet, but we've already had a disagreement about this. Here's my situation. I'm from Wisconsin but currently living in Texas by dh family. Our families are VERY different. I told him I don't want anyone at the hospital until after is born, mainly because his family stresses me out, especially his mom! And I can't imagine them being any less stressful when I'm lying on a bed in pain and will probably be stressed to begin with. He wants his family there from the start but I know they will make things for me soooo much worse! They are so overbearing, never shut up, and are always up in your business. Plus, is it too much to ask to have an hour alone with my first born before everyone comes in and starts snatching him away from me? I'm OK with two of his cousins being there that have trouble TTC, but that's it. Am I wrong in this and being too selfish? I'm just being realistic as I know how I react in stressful situations and I know how they male me feel. Last time I was in the hospital waiting for surgery for my last ectopic his mom was there making the situation sooooo much worse than it already was. I was already sad and worries, and she's sitting there talking away saying all the wrong things. I just sat there and cried for three hours waiting for them to come take me. Before she had gotten there I was fine!
Plus, I would like to add that my family has always given the parents time with their new babies. A call is made to announce that baby is here and everything is OK, but we wait to go see them so they have time to meet their new little one, get cleaned up, etc.
Plus, I would like to add that my family has always given the parents time with their new babies. A call is made to announce that baby is here and everything is OK, but we wait to go see them so they have time to meet their new little one, get cleaned up, etc.