I hate being called a statistic - Msn Convo

[HannahGraceee]

Aghhh i got angry over this convo then i realised its just because he knowns what im saying is true. But being called a statistic and "Basically" A Slut just because im going to be a teen mum. i dont understand why appernly if you a teen and a mum your a big fat slut :l
Mark says:
is ur m8 becki single?
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
shes 14
Mark says:
no shes not
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
yes she is
Mark says:
is she single
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
her brithday is the 20/05/94
Mark says:
thats ur birthday
Mark says:
not everyone u know has ur bdau hannah
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
No mines 21/05/91
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
shes 14 that is sick if you wanna no if shes single your 25
Mark says:
well becki or becci or however u wanna spell it was fit i want her
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
thats just pedo
Mark says:
no its not
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
yeh it is
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
shes underage
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
your bascially a pedo
Mark says:
lol if u say hannah
Mark says:
u basically a teen pregnancy statistic
Mark says:
who now has no life
Mark says:
and inevitably will b a single mum
Mark says:
slag is the other word for it
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x says:
yeh ofcourse, your "basically" and 20 something year old pedo, who likes to perv over 14 year old girls,





Then he blocked me - i dont even no why i used to be involded with weirdo's like this

 

[1st_baby]

Yikes that guy needs some serious help thinking about 14 year old girls yuck

and as for you hun hang in there

 

[Dragonfly]

Well I would rather be a statistic than a pedo! and your not a statistic you are a person.

 

[LongRoadAhead]

Oh dont you just love grown up big boys!!
Stupid twat! I hate people who actually find pleasure from insulting other people and it just so happens to usually be blamed at us young mums to be!
Hun, He sounds like a total arsehole but I soo understand you anger! I hate people who just judge you, Before even knowing you and knowing the situation we're in!
People like them will NEVER grow up or understand!
Try to ignore his comments Like you said hes a pedo anyway!! hehe
Xxx

 

[v2007]

You clearly hit a nerve thats y he blocked you.

Dont worry bout it. Your not gonna be a statistic. Your gonna be a wonderful Mum.

V x x x

 

[nikky0907]

Omg! What a sicko...not to mention that he's as stupid as they get.

I know how you feel hun,I can't wait to turn 20 next year and stop being a stigmatized social statistic.

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Aww hunni ignore him as a teen mum, you will get alot of people like that. I know how you feel i have had things like this said to me all the way through my pregnancy.

And he sounds like a right perv. big hugs
xx

 

[HannahGraceee]

Thanks Girlies ,x Id be lost with out this forum lol x

 

[Always&4ever]

He seriously needs his head looking at, bloody wierdo

 

[Drazic<3]

your not a statistic, you seem lovely and your a very lucky lady with a bump
He sounds well dodgy and weird. your well rid!

 

[HannahGraceee]

he is a right weirdo, when i was in year 10, he used to buy me fags and give me money for no reason at that age i thought every one was nice and no one could do any wrong, now looking back, why would someone do that :l?

 

[dreams]

block and delete him i would say! You don't need people like that in your life. One word - immature!

 

[HannahGraceee]

Well thanks everyone, and i hope all your pregnancys and TTC go well

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

he is a right weirdo, when i was in year 10, he used to buy me fags and give me money for no reason at that age i thought every one was nice and no one could do any wrong, now looking back, why would someone do that :l?

Odd, very odd. Think your well rid in terms of having him as a friend tbh xx

 

[Tishimouse]

I can understand why this has offended and upset you. It's a shame you didn't get the chance to end the conversation first but not to worry. Next time you will know not to get too involved in this type of conversation because it usually goes one way when the 'bad guy' gets defensive. I think you've won though because he couldn't hack the argument and took the cowards way out by blocking you ha ha!

As for being a teen Mum ... well that's what you are going to be a 'Mum' and there's nothing quite as exciting as that. One of my work colleagues got pregnant at 13 and now has an amazingly intelligent and incredibly cute little 9 year old girl. It wasn't all easy and no doubt she has been called a name or two (mostly behind her back), but I think she is an amazing mother. She also has an very responsible job now and so has achieved success in her life on lots of levels. She earns a terrific salary, has a good head on her shoulders and will never have to worry about being lonely in life because she will always have her beautiful daughter. (Oh and the guy she got pregnant with is now in prison for sexual offences). You can be successful and do all that too so you should hold your head up and feel happy.

As for this guy, well he doesn't sound very well balanced if he has to look at young girls and think lustful thoughts and fancy his chances with them. He must be a bit of a loser if he can't get a girlfriend around his own age and making comments to a pregnant lady of any age shows that he lacks understanding and/or compassion for others. Still, if he doesn't respect himself then how can he be expected to respect others? Oh and if he does have intercourse with a minor, then that will make him a sex offender ... whether anyone finds out or not (because any person under the age of 16 cannot in law give consent). Hopefull all this waffle will make you feel better.

 

[HannahGraceee]

Thanks Girlies x

 

[bootyb]

OMG i cant believe that is absolute paedophilia in lighting. I cant believe she blundantly sed that. Nd you aint no stastic... the sicko.... he needs lockin up b4 if he hasnt already hurt nd ruined nd taken away someones innocence. It angers me to know that they are poeple out there whu think it he ok to act a bloody animal!!! AARRRRRRHHHH!!!!!!!

 

[princess_x0]

He is a pedo.
If he was to get sexually involved with her, and she was to break up with him, or her parents were to find out he would probably get put away. It's indecent. And teen pregnancy isn't a statistic. It's life, 25 year olds liking 14 year olds is just ridiculous. He's got to be lonely! xxx

 

[Alexis]

wow. what a perv!! thats nasty. im sorry dear!! dont mind him, no matter how old men get, their mentality still stay at the ripe young age of 12. well. most men at least.

and i think pregnancy is beautiful no matter the age so long as youre happy. good luck with everything and have a happy healthy pregnancy. youre going to be a great mom.