i hate this day already

[george83]

how do you amazing ladies do it? it's only 10 o'clock and already i want to crawl back into bed and hide. i can not stand the thught that this is what the rest of my life will be like

 

[teal]

Massive hugs xx

 

[xxxjessxxx]

keep shining hunny xx

 

[Lemonflower]

Huge Hugs Sweetie

I was where you are a few months ago.... Everyone told me it'd get better and that, "there is a light at the end of the tunnel... ect, ect"
I didn't believe them, it felt like I was dying and I was so messed up but they were right things do get easier. I can't promise when and there will be days when you will feel a pang of sadness and even have a cry but that's fine.

It wont always be this bad.... you're doing really well and staying really strong. Hang in there and ride out this storm.
You are gonna be one strong b***h at the end of it.

xxxx

 

[Laura2919]

This isn't what your life is going to be like. it's what it is like for now but it most definitely will not be forever. You're going through some big changes, if you didn't feel like you do I am sure you wouldn't be normal. It's a heartbreaking thing to go through, I wouldn't wish it on anyone but every day gets a little easier and then one day you will wake up and you won't cry, you wont have an aching heart, you won't feel like you have had the life sucked out of you and things will move on just like you will.
I was where you were 5 and a half months ago and now I couldn't imagine FOB in here again and us as a couple. You will get there, it's not easy, it's not supposed to be. It feels like nothing is going to make it better but it will.. Time is a great healer, always remember that xx

 

[dustbunny]

It is very easy to get lost in the moment but try and look at the bigger picture, this time next month you won't feel like this.... this time next year will be sooooo very different. Although a year seems like a long time... even a month come to that... it really isn't in the scheme of life.
If you want to go back to bed, embrace it, have a lazy day! Watch a film, cry, eat copious amounts of chocolate! But whatever happens today put in mind that tomorrow you will go out somewhere... even if its just down the road to the shops. Small steps, do not expect massive changes. Set yourself realistic goals and then when they are achieved you'll find the courage and strength to cast your net wider.
The best things in life, the best lessons, are never easy but that is a foundation element which makes us stronger from them. You will end up being such a strong person, keep in there.

 

[Laura2919]

I agree with Dustbunny

 

[davidjoemum]

did he even try to contact you?

 

[george83]

It is very easy to get lost in the moment but try and look at the bigger picture, this time next month you won't feel like this.... this time next year will be sooooo very different. Although a year seems like a long time... even a month come to that... it really isn't in the scheme of life.
If you want to go back to bed, embrace it, have a lazy day! Watch a film, cry, eat copious amounts of chocolate! But whatever happens today put in mind that tomorrow you will go out somewhere... even if its just down the road to the shops. Small steps, do not expect massive changes. Set yourself realistic goals and then when they are achieved you'll find the courage and strength to cast your net wider.
The best things in life, the best lessons, are never easy but that is a foundation element which makes us stronger from them. You will end up being such a strong person, keep in there.

thank you i'm taking baby to a baby club tomorrow, it's only the second time we've been so i'm just focusing on that for now, i just hope nobody asks me about his father

 

[george83]

did he even try to contact you?

i had an email from him on sunday morning asking how the baby was but i can get into his account and get this - he deleted the email without even opening it, it's one thing to hate me but how dare he treat my baby like it