Oh, sweetie! It's such a shame that men have to play any part in baby-making sometimes... even if they aren't in the room, we still have to use something from them.
I'm so sorry!
I can't imagine why he would want to add such excessive hurt to what you already feel while struggling with TTC. I understand why you don't want to bring a baby into that situation right now.
It's so hard to keep stress minimal, but to add it on just for kicks... that's terrible! Stress can take a HUGE toll on the body and it's TTC functions! Maybe he just doesn't realize that, or how stressful it is for him to say those terrible things... not that it's excusable either way though.
I hope things work out for you... either with him or with someone who understands how to treat someone like you truly deserve to be treated. You always seem absolutely delightful, and your pic is gorgeous! If it doesn't work out with him, it's definitely HIS loss. You deserve so much more! Hopefully he'll wise up and see that... but if not, you still have a bright future with a family of your own ahead of you. I'm sure of it!
BIG
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If you need to talk, I'm on yahoo messenger as clarice_starling_20. I'm always invisible, but if if you IM me and I'm on, I'll lend an ear anytime. I've been through rough times in a marriage and a divorce actually... so, I might well understand!
poor man, hormones eh!
so sorry to hear that, men can be real idiots sometimes. It takes two to make a baby and stressing you out certainly isn't going to help matters. He is obviously only thinking of himself at the moment and seems like a pretty hurtful thing to say to his wife. 
