Sb86
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I need you all to let me know what you think is right, and the best thing for baby..
I'll try keep this short.
Me and baby's dad were never in a relationship. We just casually slept together and the one time we didn't use protection, I got pregnant.
At first he didn't want to have the baby, then we met up once after I told him about the pregnancy and he told me everything would be ok and that maybe we would be in a relationship (He had months earlier asked us to be in a relationship then changed his mind..)
Anyway, that was 6 weeks ago and I havent seen him since and the one text message conversation we had 4 weeks ago ended in an arguement and me telling him to not contact me and him saying "Fine".
SO, yesterday after my 12 week scan I thought I would text him the scan pictures and say sorry.
He was very short with his replies, said thanks for the pictures, said Yes when I asked if he was bothered or not, and when I said that he didn't have to see me, I could just be in touch once baby is here, he replied "maybe" and conversation was finished.
My question to you all is this: Do you think mother and father should at least try have a friendship?
I think they should. How am I supposed to trust someone I don't know with my baby?
I know I trusted him enough to sleep with him but that's nothing to do with what I'm talking about.
What should I do? I don't intend to bombard him with texts, I can't make someone do something they don't want to do, but do you think the father should see the mother during pregnancy to try make a friendship?
What is my next step in this?
Do I just leave him to be in contact if he is or isn't?
I'll try keep this short.
Me and baby's dad were never in a relationship. We just casually slept together and the one time we didn't use protection, I got pregnant.
At first he didn't want to have the baby, then we met up once after I told him about the pregnancy and he told me everything would be ok and that maybe we would be in a relationship (He had months earlier asked us to be in a relationship then changed his mind..)
Anyway, that was 6 weeks ago and I havent seen him since and the one text message conversation we had 4 weeks ago ended in an arguement and me telling him to not contact me and him saying "Fine".
SO, yesterday after my 12 week scan I thought I would text him the scan pictures and say sorry.
He was very short with his replies, said thanks for the pictures, said Yes when I asked if he was bothered or not, and when I said that he didn't have to see me, I could just be in touch once baby is here, he replied "maybe" and conversation was finished.
My question to you all is this: Do you think mother and father should at least try have a friendship?
I think they should. How am I supposed to trust someone I don't know with my baby?
I know I trusted him enough to sleep with him but that's nothing to do with what I'm talking about.
What should I do? I don't intend to bombard him with texts, I can't make someone do something they don't want to do, but do you think the father should see the mother during pregnancy to try make a friendship?
What is my next step in this?
Do I just leave him to be in contact if he is or isn't?