Sb86
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Thanks for the replies, ladies.
I don't know his family unfortunately. Baby's dad is not on facebook anymore and since only knowing his family name, it's near impossible for me to search for his parents.
If I knew where they lived I would write a letter but again, I know nothing.
The only thing I believe I can do now, is just to wait and see if he gets in contact with me. I don't want to hassle him and run the risk of chasing him away when he may have eventually come round to it all.
I try put myself in his position, for him it must all be so unreal - it's me who has the baby in my body, not him. I did say this, more or less, in one message to him.
I will send him a text message after my 20 week scan to tell him he has a son or daughter on the way, but I won't be in touch before that.
I don't feel I can do much else.
I don't know his family unfortunately. Baby's dad is not on facebook anymore and since only knowing his family name, it's near impossible for me to search for his parents.
If I knew where they lived I would write a letter but again, I know nothing.
The only thing I believe I can do now, is just to wait and see if he gets in contact with me. I don't want to hassle him and run the risk of chasing him away when he may have eventually come round to it all.
I try put myself in his position, for him it must all be so unreal - it's me who has the baby in my body, not him. I did say this, more or less, in one message to him.
I will send him a text message after my 20 week scan to tell him he has a son or daughter on the way, but I won't be in touch before that.
I don't feel I can do much else.