The worst is, that even when we do get pregnant, we'll all be so cautiously, carefully excited. Will we really even celebrate until we are 12-15 weeks pregnant? I know I won't. I will just suffer (nausea) as quietly as possible for 8 weeks until I am in the 'safe zone' and can then start to relax a bit and enjoy the pregnancy. Note, I say, 'when' and not 'if'. Trying to stay hopeful. However, I know the BFP won't be as much fun post-mc as it was last time. I agree with how another poster put it: she wanted her pregnancy virginity back..and by that she meant her innocence to enjoy a bfp. So lousy, eh?