I still haven't had the courage to have sex

[Ann-Marie]

I'm starting to feel a bit bad for poor Hubby. We haven't made love since I found out I was pregnant. In the first weeks, I wasn't allowed, because I was bleeding, but ince all that settled, I still haven't.....

And I don't even think it's because I'm worried.... I'm just not in the mood at all

He's always making little comments like 'I have balls like watermelons', and 'I'm almost a monk'. Only jokingly though.. don't be thinking he's a brute who only thinks about sex I just turn the joke around, and tell him to have a w**k....

Sorry if TMI... but does anyone else feel the same.....

 

[Sarah88]

Don't worry, i'm exactly the same! Your sex drive will pick up, at least we hope. But I always tell my OH to go jack off if he's horny coz I don't wanna no and I don't like being made to feel bad about it; afterall, he's the one that did this to me Besides, it's practice for after the birth. Hehe

 

[rashima]

Hey ann-Marie first of all, your pic is very beautiful

I also feel very sorry about my hubby as I told him to have no sex before I complete 3 months.I am also very scared and also don't really feel to have sex

 

[violet 73]

hi im the same i told my hubby that we aint having it untill after my 3 month scan i say to him after all its taken me 26months to concieve so don,t want any thing to go wrong , but all he goes on about is how big his b**ls are . violet xx

 

[Belle]

I feel the same, my poor OH i really feel i'm neglecting him!! My sex drive is starting to come back now as the sickness is wearing off so maybe when u get a bit further along u'll feel the same! x

 

[gde78]

Thank God its not just us! Luckily OH is not wanting full sex at the moment, but he does keep coming up and waving it in my face and demanding other attention - sorry TMI. We did succumb on Sunday, but felt so bad after that it won't be happening again. I felt like the poor little bean would be disturbed and got really worried after.

 

[leeanne]

Ah, I can relate. My libido truly sucks!

Even at normal times it's a bit low but a lot has to do with having little ones around and not having more than 5 minutes to start and getting it over done with before the sound of "MOMMY!" rings in my ears. And I need the foreplay not the wham bam thank you mam.

I feel for my hubby too.

What was cute last night was that he was finding the heartbeat of our baby through our doppler. Hubby said it would be better if I took all my clothes off so he could see my pregnant body. Yeah, Yeah! I rolled my eyes at him. But he said that he better enjoy the stages now before I go back to normal again after birth.

Yes, that was so sweet. But my clothes stayed on.

 

[anita665]

I've been through stages during my pregnancy where I went off it and stages where I wanted it all the time. You might find in a week or 2 you'll feel totally different. I think it was when I was in the 2nd trimester I wanted it all the time.

Now I feel too big for it again and immobile so sex has been really reduced.

 

[Vickie]

I was the same in first trimester, I felt horrible. Poor DH took it like a trooper though.

 

[Ann-Marie]

Thank God its not just us! Luckily OH is not wanting full sex at the moment, but he does keep coming up and waving it in my face and demanding other attention - sorry TMI. We did succumb on Sunday, but felt so bad after that it won't be happening again. I felt like the poor little bean would be disturbed and got really worried after.

I actually did just shriek with laughter and made the dog jump

 

[Ann-Marie]

Cheers girlies You do cheer me up. Glad to see I'm not the only one

 

[lynz]

i was the same hun. We used to have a very active sex life before i fell pregnant but then once after sex in the early part of the first tri i noticed that i had bled a little, something which i now no is normal, but that put me off and i was scared to do it after that.
Now im in the second tri our sex life is starting to pick up again much to his relief

 

[keelykat]

Hi, we havent had intercourse in about two months, but its not to do with my sex drive changing. We've both felt a bit strange about sex, oddly enough my OH is the opposite to everyone elses, hes been all loving and cuddles etc but hasnt hinted at sex unless i do first. Hes told me hes worried about hurting little P!

We've made a start at doing other things, and gradually getting back into it, to be honest though ive felt more hornier then before! Sorry if this is TMI but im wetter down there now and so its a lot easier and feels better!

Keely.

 

[Mervs Mum]

I. AM. GAGGING. FOR. IT!!!!!!!!!

My hubby is

Doesnt wanna prod the bean.......GIVE. IT. UP. NOW!!!!

 

[maddiwatts19]

I was completely the other way!!!!.
I was the one wanting it all the time!!. lol!! He didnt have anytime to recover!! lol! Sorry tmi!! lol!
Its now that i dont want sex! Hes not rushing or presurising me to have sex,but i feel bad for him, cos i know he wants it! I just feel like less of a woman now, so dont want sex!!
But bless you hun!. Im sure your OH understands.
Lots of love
xxx

 

[pocahontas35]

I am on 3 weeks w/o luvin! Of course, I am not like most of you. I really am having a hard time with this, but my dr. said I need to be on "vaginal rest" since I have a cervical issue right now. Poor OH has had to be so patient, and he is not used to having to wait longer than a week. I still have 3 weeks to go until I will hopefully be given permission. Of course, my moods change as well, but when I am pg I am usually hornier than ever!

 

[Mervs Mum]

My va-jay-jay is well rested......she's practically in a coma...

 

[elles28]

My va-jay-jay is well rested......she's practically in a coma...

In the same boat as you all...

 

[leeanne]

My va-jay-jay is well rested......she's practically in a coma...

Now that was the funniest comment of the day!

 

[Ann-Marie]

My va-jay-jay is well rested......she's practically in a coma...

Love the name

I call it 'doofah'

Maybe one day soon, my hubby will get his doofah day

( We should start a thread..... Whats your nickname for your bits? )