If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't?

[HNB_01]

Hi guys

This will be my 3rd month ttc and although im still anxious, i have chilled out quite a bit. i'm at the point now where, im still tracking my fertile days and using my OPK's, BUT if it happens, it happens. And if it doesn't, it doesn't. I just tell myself maybe next month! The only frustrating thing is that my boyfriend will be going away and we don't know when for sure, so i stress about the time frame. He could leave tomorrow or it could be a couple months from now! I havent told any friends or family that we are actively ttc, so i seek communication with people in the same boat as me on this forum! Anyone in the same situation?

 

[LavenderLove]

I'm in a similar situation. I'm actively tracking things still this third cycle, but have seemed a lot more relaxed about it. I was so nervous before!

DH and I actually had a conversation today about it. We're trying, but my fertility has been in question before so we know it may take us a while. If it happens this month, great! If not we'll just try for the next month.

 

[HNB_01]

Well I wish you the best of luck girl! Baby dust to you! I recently read up online that if a male is taking antidepressants it may effect his fertility? Kind of worries me because DH is on 2 of them. Cymbalta and Idk the name of the other. He already has a 5 year old, so I know his little guys are good to go! But he also wasn't taking the antidepressants 5 years ago either!:/

 

[LavenderLove]

Thanks hun! Sending you babydust, too!

I'm actually not sure on how much antidepressants affect fertility in men. He could get a sperm analysis to check out his swimmers if there's worry. That at least could paint a clear picture on what's going on with him and he could go from there if there were any issues.

 

[MummyKP]

We will be NTNP in the new year & hoping to have the same relaxed attitude as you ladies. Baby dust to you both, I can't wait to join you over here!

 

[BlueWater]

You took the words right out of my mouth!!!!! Like if it happens then that's ok, but if it doesn't that's ok too.
Like half of me deep down really wants it to happen. The other half of me is happy to live life as a couple.

Yet it's still quite a strange feeling. I guess really we're just having lots of with no protection