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[slg76]

Aimee, you can pick up pre seed at target or Walmart.

Nothing for me to do but wait. Well, and take my herbs and go to my acupuncture apts.

 

[lizlovelust]

Ladies, what do you think is going on with my chart? I also have a but load of EWCM today and a huge dip in chart.....no sore boobs, but severe severe severe fatigue. Other than that no symptoms at all....I've never had AF before 14DPO, normally 16DPO LP.....

 

[EMSwife1124]

EMS, hopefully this is your month, everybodys month. Do u temp or use opks?

I used OPKs last month but decided not to this month.. well at least not like I did last cycle. I've done some randomly to see if they are positive this week but nothing yet. Tomorrow is CD17 which is when I got my + last month so I will do one in the morning. If this isn't my month then I will use them and preseed next month. My schedule is too wonky to try and temp.

Thanks Sara good to know!

 

[Jalanis22]

Hopefully u Ovulate tomorrow...this was my 1st time using opks daily so well see if we got that eggie or not..this feels like its gnna take.forever...tomorrow.i.will be 3dpo

 

[lizlovelust]

anyone?

 

[slg76]

sorry liz, I don't chart so I'm no help.

 

[tdog]

anyone?

Hey hun I charted with this one and that chart looks like mine did it dipped then went back up and stayed up feeling hopeful for you xx

 

[LeahLou]

Hi ladies! Sorry I've been MIA. Got a lot of stuff done in the past couple days! Went and got our costco membership activated, got a membership to the gym along with new tennis shoes (mine were from 2007 and have been in 5 countries so it was time), got some BDing in, LOTS of cleaning, family meetings to figure out how to coexist until we figure out other living situations... Feeling accomplished! Now we're considering me finding a day job or trying to find something to do from home so we can get out of here quicker! No idea what to do other than try selling baked goods at the farmers market or maybe be a financial advisor with MetLife (they hire a lot of SAHMs). One step at a time though.
Can't wait to start my gym obsession!! I used to teach dance classes and was in a dance group for a while so I'd be at the studio for at least 4-5 hours every 1-2 days. Gym is like a second home
CD12 and no + opk yet but boobs hurt like a mother! Crampy on my left side last night so maybe that's a good sign?? We're kinda in a NTNP mode which is great and I'm not being obsessive. When I've been relaxed about it, I usually get preggo that month! I think now that I have another positive thing to think about (gym) it's easier to do this whole baby thing

Marie, that is crap! I hate gps like that! No one has the right to tell you what to do with your body or how many kids you can have! When I found out I was having Emilia at 19, yeah it was a shocker since I was on bcp, but I was keeping my child. They acted like that was a bad thing until I told them off one day. There's nothing I could do to change my what happened, all I can do is work towards the future, and I personally am against abortion, plus I had experience out the behind with kids. Having a baby, grows you up in a second if you let it. Find a new gp that's more understanding!

Lacy, you have great self control! It'd be hard to not slip a session in just for fun when I knew it was O time!

Sara! I need to come bearing wine and some yummy treats. 93 days?! I thought mine was bad at 53. Bleh. My friend is getting married in May and moving to CO so I may actually have an excuse to come console with you!

Sounds promising Liz! I usually get a ton of EWCM before AF was due when I'm preggo. Your chart is kind of all over the place so it's hard to say anything from it. Usually your temp stays high when you conceive but that's not always true for everyone! Have you tested?? At 14dpo, there should be a faint line unless it's a late implanter!

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Leah im in the process of changing gp's now, on a positive note my af came today 7days late but iv never been so happy to see it lol. Hoping my cycles settle soon. We're ntnp so we're more relaxed and can grieve baby properly.

 

[lizlovelust]

Thanks ladies, well temp went back up today! I'm going to try to hold off testing until AF is due or late! It'll be hard but I'll just keep breaking my heart testing and getting BFNS.

 

[tdog]

Thanks ladies, well temp went back up today! I'm going to try to hold off testing until AF is due or late! It'll be hard but I'll just keep breaking my heart testing and getting BFNS.

Sounds promising hun fxd for you xx

 

[MeaganMackenz]

I have come to the conclusion that in order to prevent myself from testing early I'm trashing the ICs and will only be testing with FRER from now on lol

Knowing they aren't cheap it'll keep me from testing until at least 11 DPO haha.

And I have a digital bad boy saved too

Just keeping everyone in the loop

 

[lizlovelust]

today we BDed and normally after I O my cervix is low and hurts to BD cause he hits it! Lol but today it didn't hurt at all and so I tried to feel for my cervix and it's so high I can't reach it! Hmm.... And loads of CM again today, not as EW but still loads...

 

[Jalanis22]

My opks are negative still but today i had some EWCM...? I have no idea what it was

 

[LeahLou]

You don't usually O till 24 hours after a + so you could've O'd today

That sounds really good Liz!!! Fx this is it for you!!

 

[lizlovelust]

It's probably just an off cycle for me, I really don't want to get my hopes up cause it's always BFN...

 

[LeahLou]

I know what you mean. It's frustrating when you feel like you've done everything you can and still aren't pregnant. That's why I've backed off a lot from TTC. It's also that I was getting pregnant, it just doesn't stick. So I am going to not test so early because I just don't want to know about chemicals anymore. You're smart for not testing, but I probably would've given in by now!!

 

[tdog]

today we BDed and normally after I O my cervix is low and hurts to BD cause he hits it! Lol but today it didn't hurt at all and so I tried to feel for my cervix and it's so high I can't reach it! Hmm.... And loads of CM again today, not as EW but still loads...

That sounds very promising hun mine was so high I couldn't feel it when I found out I was with this one eeeee fxd firmly crossed for you, well all of you xxx

 

[lizlovelust]

Thanks so much ladies! oh I feel hopeful but I'm cautious cause I've felt hopeful before and gotten crushed!

Leah, yea it's killing me not testing but I'm saving money I guess? Lol so if AF doesn't show I'll go buy a test!

 

[LeahLou]

Smart girl!