kassiaethne
Mom of a beautiful boy
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YoYo, That's exactly how I feel. I would be able to live with him without kids because I love him. But after knowing that he didn't even want to try I will feel resentful all the time. I don't think I can just accept a life without kids and not feel regretful at some point of time for not leaving him.
Also, after an ultimatum if he agrees to have kids with me I don't know how healthy even that is going to be. The decision is written for me all over I just have to be strong enough to do it. I still love him. Last night he told me he is ready to do anything else to prove that he loves me too. But I don't want anything else really, I want a family with him. He knows all about how I feel. I just can't believe this is happening to us.
just wanted to send you a giant hug. it has to be heart breaking. But if you stayed in it the love would just twist into resentment over time. So it's probably for the best to do it now, before then. time wise, and for the fact you two can still get along and not hate each other. I mean if there is any upside I suppose it's stretching the meaning of up side but I like to try and find anything good in a bad situation to feel better about it.