hello_kitty
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Sorry guys I really dont know where to post this but just wanted to vent a little. My mom is 40 years old and has 6 children and 1 miscarriage when she was younger. In 2010, she accidentally got pregnant with my sis who is 8 months at the moment. The issues caused some chaos among us siblings especially the sister below me who is 5 years younger than me because she knows she will play a big role in taking care of the baby. My mom said this will be her last since its an accident and we came to accept it. A few months after my mom gave birth, she did attempt to insert the IUD but due to bleeding, she asked to take it out. The doctor said her bleeding is not due to the IUD and put her on meds to see if it will stop the bleeding. Her pap smear turned out abnormal, the doctor said her cells are abnormal. To cut the story short, my mom refuses to use any protection right now, expect the withdrawal method. My grandma opposed to the idea of having a tubal ligation. I'm just afraid that she will end up pregnant again. The age gap between my youngest sister and me (the oldest) is 21, and the age gap between her and my youngest brother is 8. I cant picture her having another baby! Ever since she gave birth to my sis, her health has definitely gotten worse. I did talk to her about this, but I'm just afraid that she's gonna have another "accident". I also feel sorry for my other siblings especially my 17 year old sister because whenever she goes out people give her crazy looks and thinks she's a teen mom. Also, my sister has to take care of my young sis most of the time since my mom is always busy.
Due to her age and the number of children she has plus her decreasing health, I really hope she will have some self control. I really dont want her to have another kid at age 50.
Thanks to those who read my vent
Due to her age and the number of children she has plus her decreasing health, I really hope she will have some self control. I really dont want her to have another kid at age 50.
Thanks to those who read my vent